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♡Marina's tip of the day♡ If you continue to stay where you are in life. Then you'll always see life from the same window and have the same problems, obstacles, and setbacks. Life is about perspective and how you view it. It's okay to move around to get a better view~

♡Marina's tip of the day♡ Everybody experiences setbacks at some point. Whether it's before you start, losing some progress, or if your mental health takes a dive close to the end. Setbacks happen, and that's okay. Even people at the top struggle to stay there sometimes. You just need to keep going~

♡Marina's tip of the day♡ Healing is a practice that you have to actively accept for it to happen. It may take a while, but that's okay. The time it takes to heal doesn't always look pretty, nor is it really an instant "magic." Healing is a lesson that everyone has to learn and hopefully applying~

♡Marina's tip of the day♡ Life can either be very long or very short, depending on your perspective. So please try not to get lost in the days, months, or even years that pass you by. Without you realizing what life can truly provide for you or really, what you're able to do for yourself. Okay~?

♡Marina's tip of the day♡ Do you know why the grass is greener on the other side? Because the person on that side took care of their yard. You shouldn't shame yourself for other's success. You can have green grass, too. You just need to be patient, water, and take care of your own~

Marina's tip of the day~ It's okay to be a little selfish every now and then. It's how humans survived this long. Just be wary about how you're selfish to others. Because if you're very selfish, that'll just alienate you from everyone. Learn the difference between Selfish and Self-Care. Ok~?

♡Marina's tip of the day♡ I hope one day, you'll have more confidence in yourself. And realize that your time and energy are very precious. You always have a choice in how you use and prioritize it. Without confidence, you've been beaten twice in life. Once by the world, and secondly, by yourself~

♡Marina's tip of the day♡ Nobody has ever said that living life was easy. So you shouldn't give yourself such a hard time as you're living it. Be more gentle with yourself. We're all doing our best to get through. While life may not get any easier to live, you can get stronger to keep living it ok~?

♡Marina's tip of the day♡ Try to set obtainable goals that are far enough where you have to work towards them. But close enough to still be within your reach. Because it's the small achievements that will lead you to the big overarching one. And once you reach them, you'll be able to see farther~

♡Marina's tip of the day♡ Life is going to throw test after test at us. And it is up to us how we all react to them. Not every test is meant to highlight our weaknesses. Sometimes, a test may be sent so that we'll find our strengths and work on them. It's just about how you look at it~

♡Marina's tip of the day♡ Did you know that there actually is a surefire way to drastically improve your quality of life? 3 words: Invest, In, Yourself! Once you learn how to do that, your perspective on the world. But most importantly yourself, will change for the better. I believe in you~💙

♡Marina's tip of the day♡ Just because you lost your chance at something. Doesn't mean that you should wallow in that loss forever. It may not even be your fault. You'll always have a chance to gain something better someday in life. You just need to keep looking forward instead of down. Okay~?

♡Marina's tip of the day♡ Healing doesn't have a definitive time frame. Some days, you feel just fine, not even thinking about it. Others, it may still hurt, like it just finished happening. You just need to keep going, knowing that in the end. When it's all said and done, you'll be okay, ok~?

♡Marina's tip of the day♡ Keeping someone in your life just because you Love them isn't a very valid reason anymore. These days, love isn't all you need. You need support, reassurance, time, respect, mutual understanding, and happiness. What you need is to maintain your mental health above all~

♡Marina's tip of the day♡ No matter how optimistic you try to be. Unfortunately, it's impossible to completely get rid of negative thoughts & feelings. They'll still be around and creep up on you sometimes. But, what the main goal should be. Is to change the way you respond to that negativity Okay~?

♡Marina's tip of the day♡ Time is the most important thing we'll EVER be able to give someone. So important, I believe it is Superior to Love. For example, if somebody loves you but doesn't give you any time. Would you believe in their love? Be cautious with your time. You only have so much to give~

Marina's tip of the day~ There's a difference between being the victim in a situation and victimizing yourself. That being, which perspective the story is being told from. People are quick to point out the result of something. While leaving out their contributions that may have led to it~

Marina's tip of the day~ I'm sorry to say, but I know there's someone who needs to hear this. You are required to struggle in life. That's how people are able to 'survive' through it. In order for you to stand up and be proud of your accomplishments. You need to know what it's like to fall down~

♡Marina's tip of the day♡ No matter how much advice I post every day. Most people won't be able to understand their meaning. Until they experience that specific situation on their own. Once that happens, I hope you'll remember that specific tip. And be able to overcome it just a bit easier~

♡Marina's tip of the day♡ Every situation you go through, every challenge you face. Is teaching and preparing you for a lesson. Whether you wish to learn it at that time or not is your choice. Just know that if you come across a similar problem again. I hope you'll remember how to overcome it~

♡Marina's tip of the day♡ Not every day will go the way you want it to, and that's okay. You should never shame yourself for having a rough day. Because everyone has them from time to time. Just breathe and try to survive today, while good days are encouraged. Some people need to just have, a day~

Marina's tip of the day~ If you say what you think, then be cautious of your thoughts. If words become your actions, then watch what you say. If actions become habits, then you should make them beneficial to you. And if your habits become your definition, well. I hope it'll be worth it~

♡Marina's tip of the day♡ Time is always going to move forward, whether that's with or without you is your choice. Time is unbiased whether you have a good or bad day. And it can only heal or hurt you as much as you allow it to. Don't let Time itself control how you spend and prioritize yours, ok~?

♡Marina's tip of the day♡ As much as we don't it want to, pain is a universal constant in life. But, the opportunities to grow from that pain are constant as well. As much as we may not want to look at it because it hurts. Sometimes, you might have to in order to grow and learn~

♡Marina's tip of the day♡ I can't live your life for you. I can only give you the advice I've learned and am still in the process of learning. It's you who needs to take action to play the game of life. Because history only remembers the players of the game, not the people watching in the stands~

♡Marina's tip of the day♡ There's nothing more complex than the human mind. It can both simplify the most complicated things and complicate the simplest tasks. So it's perfectly okay if you don't know or understand yourself sometimes. Nobody does, but that doesn't mean you can't try your best to~

♡Marina's tip of the day♡ Maturity means so much more than people realize and it doesn't always come with age. It's about the way we see and understand people, the world, and most importantly, ourselves. Everybody grows old eventually, but not everyone is growing up. Maturity comes with perspective~

♡Marina's tip of the day♡ One's past should never determine their future. Only the present holds that power. Whatever happened then can and will hold you back as well as consume you if you let it. So try not to let it sink too deep into your mind. Give each day now meaning towards your future~

♡Marina's tip of the day♡ People are too scared of risk. Why? Because it's the unknown, and society is comfortable knowing what's going to happen. But what if the result is better? Then, you may have just missed out on something. And if by chance it's not, at least you learn from the experience~

♡Marina's tip of the day♡ Everyone often thinks about the future. Just be sure to imagine the steps it takes to reach the future you want. Different roadblocks and even anxiety may try to stop you. But only you can truly stop your own pursuit. Question is, how ambitious are you towards your goals~?

♡Marina's tip of the day♡ I sincerely hope that one day, you'll learn to give yourself more room to help yourself. It's always nice to help others. It's encouraged, in fact. But, you must take care of yourself too. You won't be able to help others as much or as well. If you can't even help yourself~

♡Marina's tip of the day♡ Today's tip is for the people who have been able to pull themselves out of a dark place mentally either today or at any point in their lives. I recognize you because I don't believe that people truly know how much strength that takes. I'm so proud of you~

♡Marina's tip of the day♡ Everyone has heard, "Don't give up," or never to give up at least once. I'm also guilty of saying this in some tips. But, depending on the situation and what the alternatives may be. Sometimes, giving up may be your best option. It shows that you can let go for your growth~

♡Marina's tip of the day♡ You shouldn't rely too much on others to make you happy. Because people themselves can be unreliable. Instead, you should try your best to make yourself happy. That way, other people won't be able to take away your happiness. If they never provided it in the first place~

♡Marina's tip of the day♡ Throughout life, you need to make mistakes. Not on purpose. Otherwise, it wouldn't actually be considered a mistake. But you need to make them, and not regret them but learn from them. If you continue to live your life with regrets. They'll only get heavier as life goes on~

♡Marina's tip of the day♡ As much as we don't want them to, everything comes to an end. Youth, love, friendship, even life itself. But before they do, I hope that you'll see. Their end is what makes them so valuable to have. So cherish who and what you have. There’s no telling how long it’ll last~

Marina's tip of the day~ You should never have to apologize for wanting to be at peace with yourself. Because at the end of the day, You are all that's going to be left. It's other people that have a choice whether they're able to live with that and support you. Or leave and you to support yourself~

Marina's tip of the day~ It's not selfish to care about yourself. We're all just trying to survive in this world. And you have the choice who is most prominent in your life. Yourself or others, and you're able to make this choice at any time. Just be sure that it's the best decision for you. Ok~?

♡Marina's tip of the day♡ It's intriging how there's different 'versions' of you in the minds of others. You may seem timid to some people or extroverted to others. But, you're not defined by those pieces others see or even how you see yourself. Maybe being undefined is the most you that you can be~

♡Marina's tip of the day♡ The day you learn about your place in people's lives. Should be the day where you adjust how you prioritize your time with them. Because time is the most precious gift that shouldn't be given to just anyone. It's up to you who you spend it yours with~

♡Marina's tip of the day♡ I would love for you to always remember, that the life in front of you and your inner peace. Will ALWAYS be far, Far more important. Than the life behind you and your inner damage. Healing will always takes time. Just don't push it back to take forever. Okay~?

♡Marina's tip of the day♡ I would love for you to always remember, that the life in front of you and your inner peace. Will ALWAYS be far, Far more important. Than the life behind you and your inner damage. Healing will always takes time. Just don't push it back to take forever. Okay~?

Marina's tip of the day~ Do you know what the two hardest challenges in life are? The first is to Create Yourself. After all, nobody knows how long that could take. It can take from a few weeks to a whole lifetime of tribulations to get through. The second challenge, is accepting who you've created~