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Cannot wait for next weekendddd❤️‍🔥

I pray, I stumble across someone who loves me the way God intended — who chooses me from the very beginning with no hesitation and no second-guessing — just a heart that knows I’m worth it⏳❤️ Ive been through way too much. I can only be but so strong.

I love me some her 💋

Two imperfect people 🫱🏾‍🫲🏾 who refuse to give up on each other #Need❤️💍

How some people move through life without depth, without reflection, without ever questioning or growing. How love can be so powerful yet so fragile. How time moves fast when you want it to slow & drags when you need it to fly. How some lessons have to hurt before they heal.

I'm never excited for the 1st of the month. My two biggest bills equal around 6k. I'm tired of this grandpa😭

This man kept me on the phone for an hour and a half, messing up my sleep schedule🥲

Anything written with love. Texts, letters, poems, cards, notes. I like tangible things that I can keep & hold on to & look at & re-read❤️

Lack of emotional intelligence, lack of commitment , an inability to learn how to handle and resolve conflict, telling outsiders yalls business, infringing fam & friends, not prioritizing your partner, not understanding that relationships are built, not being over exes, & phones/socials/OF, etc.

Selfishness. Lack of empathy. Lack of commitment. Lack of successful examples or mentorship.

Everybody wants someone to be a perfect partner for them without equally trying to be a good partner

No communication, not getting over an ex, paying more attention to people online than your s/o, cheating, not being open, not making effort, not putting your partner first

- Social media - Pride & ego - Appearance of unlimited options - Too busy for meaningful communication and connections - Lack of self awareness or willingness to do self work - Unrealistic expectations

Well, for one thing, ppl are too focused on the opinions of others about YOUR relationship. Too worried about being called a simp, or whipped or whatever weird connotation has replaced showing your partner that you love them, so you choose to act like “you don’t care” or nonchalant. 🙄

Abstinent

being wrong

I experience it a lot in the workplace. I think sometimes others get too comfortable around me because I know how to play the game. But I let nothing slip past me. I’m black first, an employee second. I probably would’ve gone further in my career had I kept my mouth shut but my conscious is clear.

We arent monoliths, there are a lot of coons, people have internalized the oppression for centuries its to be expected. We have to correct ourselves sternly down right cut people out if need be but also still have grace.

We are not a monolith and your one black friend (🧐) is not the Chosen Negro with God's most honest truth about our communities whispered in their ear, especially when it resembles what you 🫵🏾 might wanna hear so your ideas about us can remain unchallenged.

AAVE. We don’t have to talk like them. It’s our dialect, and it doesn’t mean we’re any less intelligent than anyone speaking “proper” English. There’s nothing wrong with proper English, either.

Singing every lyric to 90s R&B like I’m headlining. Whether it’s Boyz II Men’s harmonies Brandy's textbook rifts or Tevin's ballads, Usher crooning or rapping Pac something about that era that hits different. And when the whole room joins in, it becomes a cultural experience UNPARALLELED!

Line dances. We make up a dance for everything and I love that for us.

Grits do not need sugar. It’s salt, pepper, butter, and cheese—end of discussion. I don’t care how many times this debate comes up, the answer stays the same. Sweet grits? That’s just cream of wheat in disguise. Give me that savory goodness every time, no arguments, no second guesses!

*Clears throat* 🗣️🔈SPAGHETTI IS NOT A SIDE DISH!

There is a light in us. A joy, indescribable. You see it when the right music comes on, or among family, or during forms of expression. It reveals itself in many ways…but you can FEEL it. We are special. We are light.

✨Confidence✨ with a touch of ✨flavor✨ that effortless, unshakable presence that comes with knowing who you are. Whether it’s the way they move, speak/carry themselves, there’s something magnetic about that rich blend of charm, humor, and soulful depth that’s so deeply rooted in Black culture.

We won’t be free until we decolonize African nations and control their resources in unity. And stop participating in western power structures. Because these other people are united in their evil and will always use wealth and power to try to oppress, suppress, and destroy us.

Stay away from people who play the victim in problems that they cause.

I would've went to a regular HS and played sports rather than go to an early college. I was a scholar athlete but I later realized couldn't excel as a scholar without the stress relief & dopamine boost that track & 🏐 provided. I got my first C in life, in college (at 16 yrs old), & got depressed.

We great at everything!!

New week, new goals. Let's get it 💪🏾

I learned my lessons so good that I'll never put myself in those types of situations or predicaments ever again.

I want a group of good girlfriends. We don’t have to besties, but girlfriends that pour into another, uplift each other, travel together, and hold each other accountable for reaching goals. No gossiping, just good ass vibes.

Reminder: I love being BLACK…

Any book recommendations?? Preferably inspirational, motivational, self-help, or addictive black fiction series lol

Life is too short & love is too important… Pour time & energy into the people who love you, genuinely and authentically.

Whole time Black folks just want to be left the fuck alone.

I've just straight up discarded so many posts i prolly would have came back to. NEEEED drafts.

May I channel the spirit of Malcolm X today.

daily reminder! do not be complicit in your own suffering, get what you want!

Happy #SkircleSunday 🥳🤪✊🏾❤️‍🔥 skircle.me

2am - 5am is the best time to be on here.

We need a drafts folder on this app, asap😬