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kh4ndr4gmire.bsky.social
I'm an autistic LGBTQ+ social worker who is trying to break into writing novels. I have 4 cats. I am hoping to move to Spain someday.
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How did you decide to push forward with medical transition? My life isn't stable enough but I also feel like I might not ever be ready if I wait #transgender #transition #hrt

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Do you ever just stop and realize no matter how hard you work you can't fix anything, you'll never get to rest, but you can't die because your cats wouldn't understand? More than anything I wanna die tonight but I have responsibilities and my wife wouldn't be able to handle it on her own either...

submitted 5 days ago • 4 comments

Laid down for a minute before dinner to rest sore feet. I am not permitted to rest alone. ♥️

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we say it a lot but it bears repeating: women and ciswomen

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Gremlin fell asleep on my leg.

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From left to right: Khoshekh, Siren, Ghost. Littermates/siblings. They have my favorite pillow hostage so I guess I'm not sleeping tonight.

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Imagine my surprise when a tiny (2000 sq ft repurposed house) library in a tiny rural town I'm visiting has this! @xiranjayzhao.bsky.social

submitted 19 days ago • 1 comment

I'm still coughing like your uncle who smokes a pack a day, but I'm mostly better from being sick. My wife caught my cold from me and was sniffly for 3 days, but I was bedridden for 17 days (and in a coma for 3 of those days). WTF. #unfair #autoimmune

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I'm tired of feeling like I'm living life laying in bed sick as life passes me by... I wish I was healthy but my immune system keeps targeting medication instead of the cause of the sickness. So all I can do is lay here miserable.

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Me N my lovely witchy wife Elora in our silly hats. (Yes, I am a dude who looks like a chick and still ain't afraid to wear pink). My lavender jacket is uv fabric so I wear it everywhere since I'm allergic to the sun. #intersex #androgenous #sillyhats #flower

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All four of four cats. I am sick so they are clingy. From left to right: Khosheck, Gremlin, Siren, and Ghost.

submitted 35 days ago • 0 comments

Tried to make art on my tablet and interrupted by Siren.

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One of my four cats and me. Gremlin had her butt on my shoulder and her chest on the back of my chair. She is a silly goose. And yes I know I look like a girl, but I'm a dude with a hormone disorder #cats #intersex

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#EmotionalSupportDemon

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All four of four cats! Gremlin (on my belly), Siren (far left on my foot), Ghost (middle-leftish), and Khoshekh (right foot).

submitted 57 days ago • 0 comments

Important call you're struggling to make? I can tell your MIL she can't wear that dress to your wedding. Set your doctors appointment. Help you navigate a robot phone tree to handle your stuff. A one-time use personal assistant without commitment, trained in mental health. #assistant #caller #cbrs

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Three of my four cats. Khosheck (top), Siren (left), Ghost (bottom). They're siblings from the same litter.

submitted 61 days ago • 1 comment

Two of my four cats. These are Siren (above) and Gremlin (below) playing slappy-hands from the top of the cat tree.

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