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lavivasiren.bsky.social
child of God | a wife on her 29th life | virgo |fine, fat, fly and philanthropical | souf. west. alief. texas | mostly just my food, my life, and my music/pop culture opinions My favorite place to be if I’m not on this page: @itgirlcomplex.bsky.social 💖
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“Mind you, this is my first impression of you” is my favorite thing yall came up with. Some people need that reminder with all the audacious foolishness they post daily.

I embrace the sacrifices necessary to step into my next chapter. Growth requires discipline, elevation demands letting go, and my future is worth it. I trust the process because I am built for more. ✨

I got my fan and boots ready for the cookouts 😂

Now the Boots On The Ground line dance I may be able to get behind. 💃🏾 🕺🏾

Been taking a mental health break wanted to show yall my v-day dress. My wife made my Valentine’s Day weekend a dream. ♥️💌

Been taking a mental health break wanted to show yall my v-day dress. My wife made my Valentine’s Day weekend a dream. ♥️💌

Happy Valentine’s Day It Girls! 💖 Today, celebrate love in all forms, self-love, romance, and the luxury of being adored. Whether you’re being spoiled or spoiling yourself, remember: an It Girl always moves with grace, elegance, and confidence. Embrace self care, and shine. 💋✨🍾🥂 #ItGirlComplex

These 2 things are true but I am only speaking about one issue, The BLACK issue. Yes, women face oppression, but Black people, especially Black women, bear the worst of it. You benefit from the same systems you critique whether you like it or not. Not sorry if that bothers you. ✌🏾

I was just thinking about how every time I see a company rolling back DEI policies, it feels like a modern-day “WHITES ONLY” sign, just without the paint and wood. The message is the same: exclusion, regression, and a reminder of who they truly built their spaces for.

People tried to say that I’m not oppressed cus I’m rich & famous as if I’m not still black, fat & a woman… Don’t get it twisted: that money don’t free you from oppression… the fame for damn sure don’t free you…

Bilal killed Tiny Desk. He’s Beyoncé’s favorite singer for a reason 🤌🏾

That man looked directly into the camera “SAY DRAKE”

You set up your camera, french kissed the air, stopped recording, watched it, edited in AI Chris Brown kissing back, saved it, watched it again like, yeah, this is it, uploaded it everywhere… and now you mad folks calling it weird? No part of that process had you think, maybe this a lil strange?

My wife is literally the enemy of social anxiety. She DRAGS me outta me shell. Sometimes I can’t stand it. Most times I’m grateful. 🖤✨

Today, I let go of old habits that no longer serve me and embrace new, positive ones. ✨ I am choosing routines that nourish my mind, body, and soul. 💖💆🏽‍♀️ Every small step I take leads me to a healthier, happier, and more elevated version of myself. 💫 #ItGirlAffirmations

Queer African girls fully living in their truth always have my heart. Especially if they grew up religious. I know that struggle TOO well.

Want to be effortlessly charismatic? Here’s some tips: Own the room - Walk with confidence, make eye contact, and speak with ease. Your energy sets the tone! Be Magnetic – Show real interest and ask engaging questions Leave a Mark – A well-timed joke, compliment or story makes you unforgettable!💖

Very happy to be a black woman today. 💋

A Beyoncé x Paramore collab would be insane on act iii.

Vocally AND lyrically. ✨

I’m proud of her too! My wife is a medical professional as well and she tells me how heavy everything is right now. Especially the incredibly rude and invasive questions she has to ask nowadays. (IFYKYK). I always tell her that I’m proud of how she manages everything. Tell your wife she is amazing!✨

I only care enough to: Stay employed, stay OFF the No Fly List, and stay outta jail…. and the last one only counts if I said a prayer before I left the house in the morning.

“LOVE THE WIFE OF YOUR YOUTH” - @solomonmissouri.bsky.social

A story in 4 parts. 💅🏾

I am a wise, capable, beautiful being, and I trust in my ability to create the life I desire. Everything I need is already within me. I’m ready to shine. ✨ #ItGirlAffirmations

I try not to give relationship advice too much anymore. But I will say this if you are looking for marriage, stop looking for it and start looking for alignment. Once you find that most of the time marriage comes right after.

Beyoncé finna release the rock album soon. The Satanic Panic is about to ensue!

My heart is with the people back home in my city. Y’all please stay warm and stay safe! ✨

The birthright citizenship end is very scary to me. I’m a first gen American. My mother had all her children in a country that she was an illegal immigrant in. She has citizenship now but for more than half my life she did not & lived in fear of deportation. I’m praying for all new gen first gens.

I take 2-3 day breaks from my socials sometimes so idk wtf happened to my TL in the last 48-72 hrs, but imma need the n*zi empathizers to gtf asap.

It will happen at the right time because it’s already aligned with my journey ✨. I’m not chasing it. I’m attracting 🌸. I am patient, at ease, and trusting the process. No anxiety. Just faith. #ItGirlAffirmations

Very interested in seeing how this is gonna affect the music industry. #riptiktok

Had a Wicked and onesies date night. Aloe made jerk chicken wings and I made loaded mashed potatoes. The recipe is on my Instagram story now! ☺️

I wrote this one to myself over a year ago. I was truly going through it. I was (and still am not) Gods strongest soldier. And yet here I am currently living in my testimony. Unexpectedly a stronger woman because of my storm. 🤷🏾‍♀️🙏🏾