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Income does not guarantee that you will feel financially secure. Having a steady paycheck can't erase the baggage from your financial past. Old fears tend to resurface and block progress. What's a barrier that keeps showing up for you?

Facing financial trauma is not fun. It’s uncomfortable and sometimes terrifying, but it’s the only way to grow. What’s one thing you’re scared to address but know you need to?

This all day! Money trauma isn't really about money. Trauma makes financial planning and resources effectively inaccessible -- until you resolve those barriers. Great post, @carlosmcwhortercpa.bsky.social !

Your financial situation didn't vanish on January 1st. But, each new year -- heck, each new day -- offers the change to begin to rewrite your story. This year, I’m choosing gentle, consistent exploration over shame.

An age-old sentiment indeed.

I have a long flight coming up. I need to load up my Kindle. Please send your best book recommendations STAT. #help #tia

Feel like resisting the #AI domination with a pencil-to-paper original? I can vouch for @elofalltrades.bsky.social being a real person, an awesome human, and a truly talented artist.

Have you ever had to apply for SNAP ("food stamps")? I have. It was an absolute last resort to feed my family -- one wrapped immense shame. Tools, assistance, and advice are empowering only when you have control over them. Let's unpack this a bit.

Hard Fact: People without debilitating money trauma will never get it. They don't understand the struggle. Just stick to a budget. Just save money. Just watch the market. Just buy low and sell high.

Consumerism + Money Trauma = FOMO on Steroids Financial trauma involves chaos. When you can't rely on having what you need, unpredictability becomes the norm. We become hyper-focused on immediate situations, risks, threats, and opportunities.

Well, we made it through Thanksgiving. How's everyone feeling? a. still in a food coma b. unpacking emotional baggage c. waiting for someone to post bail d. all of the above

Buy N-O-T-H-I-N-G this week! This message is for my fellow traumonies (my term for people with money trauma). You don't need it. You will overspend. You cannot buy love from people with holiday gifts. The sales aren't worth it. Go enjoy your day. 🌞

Consumerism + Money Trauma = False Sense of Control Money trauma usually involves financial hardship, so buying things can feel like reclaiming your power or worth. While it is empowering to be able to pay for what we need, finding a balanced perspective can be difficult.

Money trauma cuts us off after Step 1. When your brain gets triggered by the topic on money, it becomes nearly impossible to process financial information. Thanks for the outline, Chris!

Consumerism + Money Trauma = Quick Fix Money trauma causes chaos and avoidance, so most of our energy and resources go towards putting out constant fires, instead of building stability. We are most familiar with solving crises, and we operate in panic mode.

Yesterday, I brought up how having financial trauma makes us more susceptible to consumerism. I know, I know. I talk about all the fun topics, don't I? Today, I will dive into this notion a bit deeper, but they will be separate posts.

Cost-Saving Tip: Bring up politics at Thanksgiving dinner. 🍗It's sure to reduce your holiday gift spending.

Betcha you don't ride a bicycle blindfolded. Yet, trying to deal with money when you have massive trauma filters is basically the same thing. Stop trying to do the impossible and wondering why it doesn't work out so well. Start to heal instead.

Drunk with glee that my library adoration is a genuine flex here.

My name is Tiffany. I am a Starter Pack addict.