nariniv.bsky.social
She/Her It/Its Abnormally buoyant transsexual. Kamala Harris’ disgraced wife (I’m sorry I didn’t find you those extra votes babe)
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Heh, broad appeal? Yeah they love me
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It’s pretty fun if you’ve god friends who aren’t massive NERDS
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I love the early game when you don’t know what you’re doing so you basically create the problems you need to solve ten hours down the line, and then those solutions cause worse problems
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Reduces distractions. Centers the grind. Invest in a ceo mindset now and become the froggher that will rule corporate earth
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Probably journey into the mountains I guess
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Your display name makes me read “🙂👍” at the end of all of your posts
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God I hope not
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*smokes cigarette in one drag* it seems it was simulacra all along
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That being said, addressing the oppression of trans women in an article without understanding trans misogyny is kind of insane
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I think this site has created an environment where someone is either an enemy that must be destroyed or a good guy who holds all the right opinions with basically no room in the middle for misinformed people with good intent
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Idk fondness maybe?
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Valentine’s Day falls on froggher Friday? Serendipitous
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This man online is giving me tips for making my “pops” “fat”
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Darn I missed the census. Foiled again
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The one persevering truth about booktok is that they hate books
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I feel like the anti Christ would be less of a blatant loser
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My toxic trait is that I believe grandfather nurgle does in fact love me
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When my entire resistance cell insta locks dps again and we get smoked in the first week
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Vasily Superbowl
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Like, nobody enjoys having this discourse every time it happens, and nobody ever really changes because of it. Idk maybe we need a schism or something cause this has clearly been boiling for a while
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And it will happen again every other month for the rest of time
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“We 4 you”
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Denji himeno and Asa on one list? You may be cooked
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Ever since I was a young boy I knew I wanted to be a sleepy fail girl
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Nevermind just got the the scene where integra orders seras to lick the blood off her finger and I think I’m gonna pass out
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That scene is genuinely so disturbing. HAL is being lobotomized in real time and it’s literally silent except for him begging for his life. It’s like forcing someone to go through the stages of Alzheimer’s
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Logging in every morning to see if the discourse cycle is good as if I’m appraising the quality of product at a fish market
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I wonder if cis people understand the idea of trans joy? Like I’m thinking how would I explain discovering such a huge part of yourself to someone who has no idea what that’s like?
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I’m also not sure if this experience is similar for transmasc individuals, so I’m sure there are some ways this relatively simple description of this complex process does not apply to them, and for that matter, some transfemminine people as well
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I should make a correction: degendering socialization doesn’t just deny one of the gendered identity of the group they are not excepted to belong to, it also denies them of the group and experiences that are expected of them to a certain extent
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Of gendered socialization, and therefore still acts as degendering socialization. I think most cis individuals, including those in gender studies, fail to realize (or at least acknowledge) the differences between these two experiences, which is why I feel weird about them using the term
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Appeals to the values or aesthetics of the group they are expected to belong to, but for many trans people, this necessarily comes with a great deal of suffering and self suppression, meaning that even participating in gendered socialization for a trans person is distinct from a cis experience(cont)
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Own identity while simultaneously denying you the experience of a different gendered identity (in my experience, through belittlement and violence). It’s a type of experience where you’re treated more as an object of frustration than a person of a specific identity. This may abate if one (cont)
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The gendered role that was being taught to me. As such, I would call the experiences I had as a kid less male socialization and more degendered socialization, which is to say a type of socialization in which a gendered group acknowledges you (often subconsciously) as separate from their (cont)
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And I get that perspective too in a way. For a trans person, their base socialization does affect them throughout their life, but it’s also possible and in some cases simple to unlearn a lot of lessons we learned through gendered socialization. For me at least this is because I never fulfilled(cont)