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notyourdestiny.bsky.social
Educational leadership and child development psychology for work. Urban farmer, writer, crocheter, nature enthusiast, stylist, and world traveler for fun.
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You saw a white mans toes today didn’t you

White people will try to police you minding your business. You just gotta pretend you can’t hear or see them. Literally pretend they are not there.

My man’s birthday trip is booked. Now I can relax a bit. Planning group trips is a recipe for anxiety lol.

Do your own research. Just about anything they can sell you, you can get from the earth.

Good morning and happy February! Happy Saturday! Happy BHM! ✊🏾✊🏽✊🏿

I’ve been w the school district for 4 years and I’m already getting “Ms. … idk if you remember me but” teams chats like omg of course I remember you!!

No one prepares you for the grief that comes with leaving your hometown, loving, and losing your people from a distance. So hard to process.

Good morning. I am unfortunately sharing the unexpected passing of my god sister on Thursday, Jan 23rd. We are devastated, shocked, and overwhelmed. Cherish every moment. Please consider donating to or sharing this link. She deserves a beautiful home going service. www.gofundme.com/f/help-cover...

Deciding not to have kids is the most selfless thing I’ve ever done.

The last several years in this country (but especially these last 3 months) have been nothing but doom & gloom, yet I'm choosing joy because what else can you do when you tried to tell them? Your flabbers should have been gasted long before this week.

I’ve always had dreams of leaving this country, buying land, and nurturing my community with a community I’ve helped to build. As the years go by, more people I actually know are on board. Ima really build my compound.

Haters are never funny in their jokes. Just an unfunny bitch scared to be bold.

I like that there are still angles I haven’t quite seen

Elon could have mooned everyone for all I care

I need some mullein and a cold walk

I made Pasta e Fagioli last night. Very yum.

We're going to need a bigger Luigi.

Dear Black people, American fascism is a white people problem. We are at risk obviously I'm not saying none of it matters. But white people need to fix themselves. We don't have to fix a thing. Day 2 of 1461 days of remembering that Black self and community care is resistance.

I need to grow my own herbs already this is getting out of hand.

I try so hard to just be pleasant but I am always pissed off! lol

To be informed is to be irritated 99.9% of the time.

Morning 💕 Breaking my morning social media fast to share links to help donate to some family and community members of a colleague of mine. They have been severely Impacted by the fires in CA. If you can’t donate it would be great if you could share the links. I’ll have two more down below. Thanks

I will not be letting this administration stress me out. Will simply just do the work I need to do and help those that I can.

Almost forgot today was a gym day.

I made shepherds pie last night and it was so good. I want it now. Let me make some ginger tea first so I feel okay about my choices later lol.

I made peace with winter last year. Like I accepted the cold. This year I’m embracing it. Cold air therapy and layering are my highlights. I be putting everything on and it looks fun/great lol.

If you’re not using MAC.BID you should be. I got a $400 juicer for $35. Missing parts? Register your product for the warranty on the official site. We got a $600 bidet for $100 and I cannot believe I ever lived without one lol.

Spirit guides and protects me. I am grateful.

Yes, I need to be alone sometimes (often)

I’m still very youthful in my 30’s. Not sure why folks act all decrepit. They should prob stretch and get more nutrients.

Affirmation: I give myself permission to change my mind ✨

you know what *is* available. TiK ToK by kesha

lmao no, TikTok users are not moving to Bluesky. They would literally rather learn Mandarin than learn how to read a feed of text posts. This is a millennial retirement home.

The last few times I tried to show someone how to do it, the screen froze

Don’t take anyone too serious. Try to give grace. None of us are exempt from being nuanced and contradicting humans. We are not meant to understand it all. Take nothing personally and find joy in little things.

No one can judge me but me and I know im sick in the head so i dont even listen to her most of the time

I think it’s so strange when yall poke fun at others for being upset at something just because you don’t care. It’s not important TO YOU and you’re mean spirited.

If Tr*mp “saves” TikTok there’s unfortunately going to be a lot of people who forget that he’s the reason the ban is happening in the first place. The CEO is already publicly thanking him like he forgot how this whole thing started.