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otterlyoren.bsky.social
Not quite 40 something Dad, husband, artist, Technical Professional, Queer geek who also happens to sometimes thrive with Chronic Illness and NeuroDivergence. If that’s not to your taste, please choose kindness today. There is enough vitriol out there.
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Getting Started

One of our littles had a birthday today, and asked for a watermelon cake. Well - I jumped in with both feet. First time I’ve tried #cakecarving and I am a very #amatuerbaker This is only my 5th or 6th really successful cake or cupcake, and thank you to the amazing friend who helped with stripes.

ITEM HIGHLIGHT - We don't really offer the Antique Grey colorway that often anymore so this is a rare grab from our Fates Faire! Who will be the new owner of these amazing boots?!?!?! bit.ly/4h1mTO2 #boots #smallbusiness #slowfashion #shopsmall

Rewatching the #PiratesoftheCaribbean films. I always knew I recognized Bootstrap Bill, but I didn’t realize it was Zaddy #StellanSkaarsgard until rewatching it now many years later. I love how well made these films are. Good date night for us two old theater nerds.

Sometimes kids just need to get their wiggles out. #ndkids

Call with a prospective private school for my little in half an hour, trying not to overthink. Even here in Western Washington state we aren’t free from homo- and transphobia along with the resultant harassment. No child should be “othered” by a teacher at school.

In a yurt near the mountains hunkered up with my hubby and a puppy miraculously with signal. What to do? Time for some #dropout and pizza we packed in. #umactually absolutely killing it this week.

Made a dice tower - gonna try to recreate large enough for bigger dice! #lego #dnd

I’ve been thinking lately on what I’ve felt the last 5 years have robbed me of. I’m realizing what a negative place that is to be in my heart. I’m trying to find kindness again, not just towards others but towards myself. True kindness while rare, is vital.