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I enjoy walks in the park and the occasional existential crisis
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It’s always been about them seizing the land through force. It was always an extermination.

War is weird cuz it’s still murder even if the government says it’s ok. Like having a higher kill count than serial killers & being labeled a hero is weird…yes, I’m referring to Israel murdering children, innocent civilians & aid workers.

Why do so many super rich people have such badly botched cosmetic surgeries?! My guess is they have enough money to turn a surgeon’s no into a yes.

I can't stand old people who are racist at every chance they get. I don't care if you come from a time where things were different, you have to adapt and realise you're living in the present where you don't have a free pass to be a bigot.

Ever see the state of a former workplace and have it confirmed once again you made the right choice in severing ties

There’s no way burning man is actually enjoyable. I think it’s just an event to brag about their status cuz there’s no way that shit is fun.

Walked past a cobra chicken family today. I could feel my fear welling up & just tried to stay calm while getting hissed at. And the place I was going to wasn’t even open cuz it’s a holiday. Risked my life for nothing.

A Gemini will give you fake info just to see how far it travels

Instagram brought the map feature back & it appears some people’s homes are showing up as locations. Seriously turn location sharing off!!

I remember walking to the coffee shop at the corner was even too much. They had to bring my coffee to where I was sitting cuz I was so weak. It took twice as long getting there too cuz you have to stay at a resting heart rate, so I had to walk really slow. No one talks about that side of surgery.

Like I couldn’t brush my teeth for the first 4 days, and after that still couldn’t do it properly. I felt disgusting and probably stank. All I wanted was to feel clean and they wouldn’t help me. I couldn’t pick things up off the ground without massive effort too.

If you have a friend or family member ask you to wash their hair during surgery recovery, please just wash their hair. I remember recovering from my septorhinoplasty, cast still on nose, no energy & unable to shower, asking my family to wash my hair & they wouldn’t.

All misogynists are confusing feminism with misandry Which tracks cuz in order to be a misogynist, you must be stupid

The cowards made it so I can’t respond. This ugly ass gives this dense af answer. Women weren’t allowed to work jobs like these or were forced out by predators who harassed them, therefore women would be relatively new to these fields, you fucking knob. Not the gotcha moment he thinks it is.

These guys need to recognise they’ve been groomed by the internet by engaging with misogynistic content. I also don’t believe misandry is even close to what misogyny is. Misogyny often doesn’t have a real source imo, whereas misandry is a reaction to various forms of mistreatment.

If you’ve never taken a psychology course, you shouldn’t throw around psychology terms. Like I’m tired of misogynists associating feminism with cluster b disorders. They’re not similar at all. Feminism isn’t even close to how they define it. They’re just angry, immature boys.

Something so weird about working conventions is how they don’t offer food vouchers for the staff. There’s no fridges/microwaves so you have to buy the overpriced food there. Last time I had a guy aggressively slam the tip jar down at a pizza pizza cuz I didn’t tip him for the $6 slice of pizza…

He acts like he’s a genius but asks you to do the myers-briggs test🙄

Misogynistic podcast bros are setting guys up for a horrible existence. The platforms need to be held accountable for enabling these shows to exist as they breed & embolden dangerous men.

I wish I could master just sitting down to write, but I also have to consider how ideas evolve. So maybe I do need months to years to work it out so these stories have enough time to mature.

I’ll get sudden waves of motivated creativity where I do write. These ideas come from nowhere at the most inopportune times. Like the idea that lead to the 40 page draft. I was about to step into the shower. I turned the water off, grabbed my towel and sat on my bedroom floor & wrote the outline.

I also need to write the entire plot from start to finish in my head before I type anything out. i never forget any of it either. It’s like it gets filed away in that section of my brain, where I’m able to pull it out at any moment to review everything.

Not sure why I psyche myself out when I think about sitting down and writing. I assume I can’t even though I’ve proven I can. I wrote a 40 page rough draft in 5 days without referencing my outline. It’s entirely possible. I just need to focus.

How are the women married/dating guys who post nonstop misogynistic comments not embarrassed? Like you’re an absolute doormat if you don’t have a problem with that. These guys are always as ugly as they are immature.

When you come across one of those aggressively magat profiles, block them. Don’t argue with their parroted nonsense, ignore and block. It’s better to deplatform than to embolden them via interaction.

I can’t be nice to people who are dedicated to being wrong anymore. By being nice to them, we’ve enabled them to continue spreading disinformation & people have dumbed down enough. Make them feel so foolish they go into hiding.

So I have subtle paralysis in my top lip & it’s odd feeling it fluctuate on random days to the point it affects my speech. It’s like the surrounding muscles get lazy.

IMO no gag order should’ve been approved as I was telling the truth and the settlement was the end. Along with multiple other saying the same shit I did. They just never filed a claim like I had.

And to the stalkers, the statute of limitations in whatever gag order I had expired. I can just block whatever means of contact is used.

For anyone finding this profile who knows what I’m referring to, this is why I don’t want to be associated at all & why I’ll continue to hide and ban phrases relating to them. Get tf over it. I opened the curtain and showed them the truth & it’s not even worth holding onto anyway.

When I had an open claim against a former employer, they tried EVERYTHING. I’d just send it all to the officer & reply to their claims with receipts that disproved them. It ended in them paying me a nominal settlement cuz the company was broke and dissolving.

I think it’s funny when people try to threaten lawsuits against people who are telling the truth cuz it’ll just be revealed in discovery. Prob why trump has never sued over the incontinence claims.

IMO if a guy says “women should take responsibility for their rapes” he’s likely raped someone or is a high risk of doing it. Any guy who isn’t disgusted by sexual assault is likely a predator And that’s my hot take of the day

Can we trade all the maple magats for the us born doctors getting self deportation letters & all LGBTQIA+ …and the entire state of California, please?

I later saw the clip of her demonstrating perfect pitch. Her voice wasn’t perfect but she correctly identified each note he played. I’d love to know all the shit talk this lowlife did behind my back. Was he good looking? No. Talented? No. Smart? Clearly no. That’s why he talked so much shit.

I remember this guy at a former job made fun of someone else there by gossiping that she said she had perfect pitch, then played a clip of her singing badly. The thing is, she did have perfect pitch, he’s just a know-it-all idiot who didn’t know what the term meant.

Getting hit on by men who are older than 50 after I’ve said I don’t want a man over 50. These 50yr old guys who thought they were going to get younger gfs need to understand they’re not the prize. They need to date women their age.

On top of this, they still hate Carney even though he’s doing what they all asked!!! If ever a cult there was…

So far we have a guy who went full misogynist, incel MRAs, the gofundme grifter, the serial rapist socialite, bigot racist rant guy, a career sugar baby drug addict, naked videos of daughter guy, etc and they’re all maple magats. Like that group is unredeemable.

Wow, so surprised the guy who insisted on showing me countless videos of his daughter nude instead of properly explaining a potential assistant temporary job for him turned out to be a maple magat. These people truly are sick in the head. Like they’re all horrible people.

🧵1 A 12-year-old boy was left alone on a street corner after “ICE” agents arrested the adult he was with in Waltham, MA. They just drove away and left him. A child. On the sidewalk. Like trash. THIS is the face of our immigration system. Cruel. Inhumane. Indefensible. #OnYourSide @cbsnews.com

Just scratched my eczema patch and now I want to tear that skin off my body. At least it’s not my eyelids this time.

Why is it that the “well, I can afford it” cons who claim they want privatised healthcare always need to make gofundmes to afford the privatised services they said they could afford?

I think people who’ve shared my experiences are feeling just as annoyed cuz we are trying so hard to gatekeep places to keep the crowds at trinity bellwoods so we can have peace at the better spots that get ignored by those who act like they can’t leave downtown.

It was the same thing when I lived in midtown and people who lived downtown would complain it was too far to come up to yonge & eg, but expected me to come meet them at Trinity Bellwoods.

Living in the suburbs where people from the city will complain about spending money to come see you but ignore that you spend money to visit them.

Like the racist claims about immigrants. These bigots are exaggerating to excuse their racism and xenophobia instead of recognising they’re the problem.