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Philly suburbs dom that’s actually just a big nerd who likes to read (and tie up men and degrade them) Consider myself an accommodating dom—love helping subs with their fantasies Recon, Fetlife, Venmo: PHLsuburbandom https://linktr.ee/phlsuburbandom
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Take it all and bury your nose in my bush.

Really making it difficult not to cancel plans tonight.

I love introducing knotted dildos to subs. Working a sub open to take that second, larger stretch and realize they’re locked in makes me absolutely feral. (Bound sub for scale).

See what happens when you flinch too much? Now relax and let me have my fun.

Stretching out his one hole wasn’t enough. Wanted to stretch out another. #sounding #cbt #gaykink #gaybdsm

But where to start? #gaybdsm #gaykink #gayphilly

I quit smoking and I’m feeling restless. Need a submissive man in Philly to help keep my hands busy tonight and help release some tension.

Today, the vibes were immaculate. I love Philly.

There’s a trope in writing with smut where they say “his eyes darkened” Tonight, things got more primal with a fwb and he had his forearm on my throat while I was deep inside of him. I pinned him down and he SMIRKED, looked me in the eyes, and said “oh, there you are…” I could feel my pupils blow

Be my Valentine? 👉🏻👈🏻 (Thank you, Jon! 😘 I’m obsessed with my new book tote) #gaydom. #gaybear #gayphilly

Love this fucking city! GO BIRDS!! 🦅

I especially love that the Super Bowl is an occasion for all the locals to post sexy pictures wearing jerseys and say Go Birds! #gayphilly #gaybear

“Bro, I promise it’s good luck. Haven’t washed these socks or jock the whole season and now they’re in the Super Bowl. That’s what winning smells like.” Who wants a sniff for good luck? Go birds! #gaydom #gayphilly

*Crowdsourcing question for doms that do online work* I’m researching apps that will allow me to give weekly tasks to subs, assign a point system, and require photographic evidence. Does anybody know a good habit tracking or chore tracking app that can fulfill this? #gaydom #onlinesub #cagecheck

Gagged, bound, locked, and leaking like crazy. He’s in for a long night, and we are just getting started. #gaydom #shibari #chastity

I went to go take a nice relaxing bath and enjoy the rest of my audiobook, only to find out the book was done. Anyway, I took these photos instead. Someone give me a book recommendation! Just finished book 18 of 2025 (Foe by Iain Reid). #gaybear #gaydom

I just love that everyone is taking an omegaverse quiz and not acknowledging that it is omegaverse related. www.quotev.com/quiz/1687588...

Help me water my plants on this #humpday? #gaybear #fuzzybutts

If I tell you to worship my sweaty feet, you better come with this much enthusiasm. @phillyswitch.bsky.social #footworship #gayfeet #gaykink #footslave

Once again, my mail confirms that I got into domination partly for the books. Got some fun toys and books I’ve been wanting today from some wonderful subs.

This sub was acting out online last week and became quite bratty. He was jealous of my other subs saying I was being nicer to them. Even publicly tried provoking me by posing with another dom. Turn your volume up (but maybe with headphones) and listen to how nice I was. #gaydom #gaybdsm #gaykink

My newly locked sub wasn’t sure if he was going to be able to cum with his little nub locked... and then I introduced him to #estim (and some merciless edging). #gaydom #gaykink #gaybdsm #chastity

Who wants to storm broad street and maybe kiss after the Eagles win? 👉🏻👈🏻

Showing up to my dom session in this. Go birds.