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readandbreathe.bsky.social
Writer. Editor of WHAT MY MOTHER AND I DON’T TALK ABOUT (2019) and WHAT MY FATHER AND I DON’T TALK ABOUT (May 2025). www.michelefilgate.com
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We've got a new episode up this week. @tomholbrook.bsky.social and @readandbreathe.bsky.social and I are talking Tuck Everlasting. #booksky #authors #writingcommunity #writesky open.spotify.com/episode/4E1R...

Tickets are now on sale for the NYC book launch at Books are Magic! Featuring @jaquiradiaz.bsky.social, Isle McElroy, and Jiordan Castle. Moderated by @thedennemichele.bsky.social! myfatherandi.eventbrite.com

So far 2025 has been a chaotic and stressful year for obvious reasons, but books are keeping me going. I just read two nonfiction books that made me think of the boundless possibilities of the genre: I AM, I AM, I AM by Maggie O’Farrell and THE UNDOCUMENTED AMERICANS by Karla Cornejo Villavicencio.

Thank you to Kirkus for the starred review! ✨✨✨ “Throughout, the essays are marked with love, honesty, and exquisite writing. With tenderness and aplomb in equal measure, these essays plumb the depths of paternal relations.” www.kirkusreviews.com/book-reviews...

Maggie Nelson has a new book coming out that's described as "something of a companion piece to 2009's BLUETS." !!!! www.wavepoetry.com/products/pat...

Last month, right before the holidays, I got to work on a new website for @readandbreathe.bsky.social. Her latest book, What My Father and I Don't Talk About, is out this May! Visit her website to learn more: michelefilgate.com

Such an intimate and important anthology. 💙 Out 5/6/25. @readandbreathe.bsky.social

Hear @saribotton.bsky.social @rachelkramerbussel.bsky.social @cconnell8.bsky.social @brosandprose.bsky.social @johndevore.bsky.social @dirtylola.bsky.social @kellidunham.bsky.social @readandbreathe.bsky.social in NYC on May 3 at Open Secrets Live: opensecretsmagazine.com/p/open-secre... 1/2

PSA for critics and booksellers: as of today you can request the e-galley of WHAT MY FATHER AND I DON'T TALK ABOUT on Edelweiss!

An excellent and important piece by @heydonnelly.bsky.social.

@readandbreathe.bsky.social’s first book went viral and has gone to multiple printings for a reason! WHAT MY FATHER AND I DON’T TALK ABOUT is going to be an absolute banger. The bookends to all our trauma: Mom AND Dad!

Look what arrived in the mail this weekend! 😍 Preorder the book: www.simonandschuster.com/books/What-M...

What are you reading to kick off 2025? I read BLUE LIGHT HOURS by Bruna Dantas Lobato, a novel as deceptively quiet as the snow-covered Vermont campus where it's mostly set. It's a moving portrayal of a close-knit relationship between a mother & daughter as they keep in touch over Skype.

Booksellers and critics: get in touch if you'd like to be on the galley list for WHAT MY FATHER AND I DON'T TALK ABOUT. Forthcoming from S&S on 5/6/25!

HOT AIR by @mdermansky.bsky.social, INVERNO by Cynthia Zarin, and I’m still undecided on the rest of my vacation reading. I have so many books in my TBR piles!

I'm thrilled to share my brand new website designed by @sarah-salcedo.com of @tallfirsproductions.com. Isn't it gorgeous? www.michelefilgate.com

One of my favorite books of the year!

Esquire’s loss is someone else’s massive gain. Adrienne is one of the brightest, sharpest, most talented editors in the business. And she has *exquisite* literary taste. I’m hoping that another excellent outlet hires her!

Started this book last night and can’t put it down. It’s exactly what I’m in the mood for.

Did you know The Bell Jar, The Handmaid's Tale, The Feminine Mystique, and more all appeared on Sesame Street in the 90s? The @muppetwiki.bsky.social team finally created a page for my favorite little-known running gag: Prairie Dawn's Feminist Literature collection muppet.fandom.com/wiki/Prairie...

Join me this coming Thursday at the Brooklyn Public Library’s Dweck Center for a @bookcritics.bsky.social panel on the influence that Brooklyn (along with its critics and writers) have brought to American literary culture. www.bklynlibrary.org/calendar/nat...

My favorite podcast!

Really loving how Bluesky feels like literary Twitter circa 2008.

A phenomenal essay by @heydonnelly.bsky.social: memoirland.substack.com/p/the-year-o...

This Sunday at City Winery: I’m reading from a new essay during Wesley Stace’s Cabinet of Wonders. Tickets are still available! citywinery.com/new-york-cit...

I signed up for Bluesky and then didn't use it for a long time. But @katekilla.bsky.social encouraged me to give it a try, so I'm back on the app! Looking forward to connecting with other writers and bookworms.

I'm thrilled to share the cover and lineup for WHAT MY FATHER AND I DON'T TALK ABOUT, forthcoming from Simon & Schuster in May 2025! Pre-orders make a huge difference for a book. Please consider ordering from your local indie bookstore. www.simonandschuster.com/books/What-M...

Thanks to everyone who helped me celebrate my 40th! My thirties were centered around figuring out how to set boundaries & create the life that I want. As I enter my next decade, I’m grateful for the clarity that comes from lived experience & the ❤️ I feel for & from my friends, family, and boyfriend.

Best book mail ever. @kellylink.bsky.social

I’m turning 40 in two months, so I’m thinking about all of the goals I’d like to accomplish over the next decade. For those of you in your forties or older: tell me your favorite thing about being that age!

I sold another anthology to Simon & Schuster!