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rhaven.bsky.social
I write about trauma. Parent. Sensitivity reader. Rep'd by Kaitlyn Katsoupis of Belcastro Agency. Anti-racist, anti-fascist, anti-AI. BLM, Every Child Matters. He/him. Website at www.theirritablequeer.com
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Ramadan Mubarak!

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In case you need reminding.

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The weird censorship of nipples means an ever-increasing amount of art with implausibly covered breasts that imply the nipples must be somewhere under the armpits?

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I'm going to scream if people keep leaving garbage at my door* (*the garbage is flyers promoting the Conservative party)

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www.theirritablequeer.com/queer-rambli... Manifesting.

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I recently went to a tea festival and bought hwangcha, yellow tea - it's so freakin' good

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You ever get so angry you make a Powerpoint about it

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I really really need you guys to make a conscious rejection of generative AI tools part of your ongoing political resistance. Don't use ChatGPT. Turn off Gemini. Don't read the AI results forced upon you at the top of Google search. Don't use AI art generators or support anyone who does. Please.

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Sometimes, in order to get inspired, you have to ask yourself... "What if [x piece of media] was good?"

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I haven't been able to keep track of what day of the week it is since February started. It's all a haze as I lose the thread of what new Bad Thing is happening.

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It's not enough to not be racist. You've got to be anti-racist.

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Happy Black History Month 💕 Read more black horror not only in February, but all year long.

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Happy Lunar New Year! www.theirritablequeer.com/queer-ramblings/2025/1/29/snakes

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Was paranoid out of nowhere that my fantasy novel in-progress was plagiarizing a particular piece of media - Then realized I've never consumed that media so it's doubtful

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sons of bibliography

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MRAs are a special type of sad, in that they evoke no nor deserve any pity

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I can’t find joy anywhere right now

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www.theirritablequeer.com/queer-ramblings/2025/1/17/the-podcast

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Episode 5 - It's Going to Get to You (with guest @rhaven.bsky.social) is now streaming! https://buff.ly/40bvbMT #WritingCommunity #WritingPodcast Alt text: GIF of derailing train with "idea," "book," "query," and '"dream" on the cars, steam puffs from the engine, & tickets display episode title.

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This week's blog post, I urge you to keep an eye (or ear) out for @unfortunatelypod.bsky.social! www.theirritablequeer.com/queer-rambli...

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This is your periodic reminder that: "AI" is artificial, but not currently intelligent "hallucinations" are actually incorrect or misleading output (errors) "AI" cannot "join the workforce" any more than a broken clock can When we use their marketing terms we only help them perpetuate the scam.

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Here's a preview of next week's episode, featuring horror and fantasy author @rhaven.bsky.social who chatted with us about finding writing community (among many other things)! #WritingCommunity #WritingPodcast #2025Debut

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Capitalists will literally create elaborate ghost stories that they manifest through cheesy special effects/costumes to torment groups of plucky teens and their dog, rather than admit billionaires should pay taxes

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I’m in both of these books!

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January is not the month for resolutions. We’re all sick, exhausted, cold, broke, depressed and back at work against our will. January *is* the month for outrageous Victorian self-care rituals, because who needs a new gym membership when you can just take a good turn about the room for your agonies.

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My New Year’s tarot reading predicted more work for little gain, just like every year so far. Here’s hoping it’s wrong!

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I have some time and I need some $ so I’m offering tarot/oracle spreads for 2025! 3-card pull — send $12 to me and $12 to a family in Gaza 12-card pull — send $25 to me and $25 to a family in Gaza DM me or email babai.sophia at gmail, and of course I would appreciate if you boosted this ♥️

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HR, as a concept, does not exist in ‘Love, Actually’

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The sword from my D&D campaign - the Sunblade! The blade is divine light that emerges from a hilt bearing a jaguar-inspired crest, wielded by a warrior called The Bloodsinger.

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Readers don't need to think critically about every book, but they do need to acknowledge that, no matter the author's intent, books say a myriad of things. They tell stories AND impart lessons. Sometimes good lessons, sometimes bad. And if other people want to talk them out, more power to them

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POLITICS IS IN EVERYTHING. I'm so tired, y'all.

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I need an adblocker on my TV

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STREAK NOT BROKEN it's just a cold!

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Reminder that nudity is not inherently sexual. SITUATION is what makes something sexy

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