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shababbyflabby.bsky.social
A guy in his 40s doing his best to enjoy life, expand his worldview, and grow his empathy. Into comic books, woodworking, the outdoors, household projects, travel, cooking, a variety of crafts, baking, and travel.
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Why is the shower the best place to cry it out? My stepdad passed and the shower lets me drop my walls and actually start to process the loss and memories. Our poor hot water heater.

We're starting the Christmas movies with the cornball "Christmas Lodge" Can they finish the massive reconditioning project and fall in love by Christmas eve???

The only real family drama from Thanksgiving? My dad sure got offended by our fridge magnet: Get your head out of your ass and into a book. His responses were limited to: "That's terrible" and "I don't read very much" What am I supposed to do with that information??

The guy from Cake remembering who was married to Incontinentia Buttocks: His name's Biggus Diccus!

Talking to houseguests while their unsupervised child explores my home puts my anxiety at 11. What's the height and weight limit on a pack n play, again?

Today's compound cut piece on the scrollsaw. The saw is dialed in and my stock holding jig just got an upgrade. This is one of my cleaner cuts and I'm very happy with this #woodworking exercise. I'll probably move back to small ornaments now. Much faster to cut. No idea how to paint it though.

Remember when Game of Thrones, the Marvel movies, or the walking dead were the topics of conversation with coworkers and acquaintances? Nerd stuff was the main stream for a glorious time. It seems the default is back to sports, with an added benefit of an obsession with gambling. Yay

What's an acceptable number of days to wear the same pair of blue jeans before washing is required? Presume daily showering and a WFH desk job. Thank you.

I've been sober for just over 3 years. I was spending at least $40 a week on alcohol. That's at least $2k a year (probably closer to $3k) and $6-9k freed up. We're flying to Italy this summer with tickets funded by that cash. #sobriety is a challenge but I'll take Italy over hangovers.

This is Mina. She's 17 and tolerates only me and the wife. She sheds everywhere, eats til she vomits, sneezes on the walls, and loves to snuggle.

How can I best deal with the inevitable failure of the Jamaican restaurant that just opened? The food was flavorful but they're ironing out two major problems - long waits and lukewarm food. I really hope they nail it as it's great having a nearby restaurant with something other than bar food.

So does the real human inside the character Jake Paul's playing feel good about that bout?

The wife and I finally watched The Godfather. And now she's at Newsies while I've got Dandadan on as I wait for the Tyson/Paul bout. It's been a good week with lots of variety.