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tallsouthernpig.bsky.social
Boot-worshiping sadomasochist and leatherman. Been away from the scene for while and now getting back in touch with my leather blood.
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Getting Started

To all those I've chatted with who believe that BDSM is *truly* about cruelty and neglect: Read Bean and Baldwin. Go to CLAW. Attend a MAsT meeting. Find your leather heart and then give it away. Good BDSM experiences align us with our authentic selves, and should build us ALL up, NOT tear us down.

Got my Pride on today.

This handsome beast submits to me regularly now. I am awed by his gift. @officialbuddystl.bsky.social

Recent pix of my hot blonde bear. Woooofs, husband! Want you every day and twice on Sunday!

"When injustice becomes law, resistance becomes duty" --Ruth Bader Ginsburg

When asked by a boy how I he could serve me, I replied, "What I want most from any boy (or man) is that he grow toward being his fully realized, authentic self. That does not come from other men. It was implanted inside you on the day of your birth, and it needs your love and attention."

Taken the morning we flew out of Budapest on our once-in-a-lifetime European vacation last October. On that very day in 2024, we were 16 years together, 7 years married, and for me, 3 years sober. Much to celebrate, and much love!

My husband, a 40-year AIDS survivor, helped organize one of the first AIDS Candlelight Memorials in STL in the late 80's. This past weekend at the Gateway to Pride exhibit at the Missouri History Museum, we saw an original poster with HIS handwriting on it. We held each other tightly and wept.

I created this feed to share my second leather journey. My first one began 20 years ago, and I lived the life fully. But I was drawn away from my leather blood, and suffered numerous personal struggles that I think were related to not being my authentic self. I am back. I invite you to walk with me.