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tboy.bsky.social
transsexual, dog dad
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when someone at work repeats what i have JUST SAID as if it’s new information i want to 🔪

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everyone is clamoring to know who will win: my desire for a smoothie or my desire to stay on the couch

submitted 17 hours ago • 0 comments

trying to figure out if i was called “man” or “ma’am”

submitted 5 days ago • 2 comments

the work gays are pissing me the fuck off with some sea lawyer ass antics

submitted 6 days ago • 0 comments

androgyny doesn’t owe you nonbinary. is this anything

submitted 7 days ago • 1 comment

im like five years late here but the la veneno tv show rules

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remembering how the first 20 minutes were the best part of Tár and all I wanted out of the movie was a city arts and lectures talk about classical music for dummies like me

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a bizarre consequence of the non-generational aspect of queerness is sometimes youve spent the day researching countries’ gender self-determination laws and immigration policies while your parents have spent the day touristing around florida, and neither of you knows how to talk to the other abt it

submitted 7 days ago • 1 comment

man I was looking at old photos and my main thought was “thank god for transition”

submitted 8 days ago • 0 comments

am i crazy for feeling mixed emotions about my parents sending me vacation updates from florida

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out here googling “does my dog know how much I love her”

submitted 10 days ago • 0 comments

y’all it has been one single whole month. if this is what happens in one month i do not know how to emotionally grapple with over a year

submitted 11 days ago • 1 comment

i wish my existence wasn’t a political football

submitted 12 days ago • 1 comment

sometimes I feel so so much older than people two years younger than me and i struggle to explain it. but it’s little things like if you don’t remember when we all used trans* or the grip that dapper fashion had on genderqueer mascs, to me, you are a child

submitted 14 days ago • 2 comments

sorting my bookshelf and pulled out a few books that are on the borderline for getting donated. skimming thru them again and I’m just agog at how much queerness has changed in the last 8 years

submitted 14 days ago • 1 comment

who will win: the nyrb book sale or the knowledge that i have to pack and move all my books in a month

submitted 15 days ago • 0 comments

teaching the children (he’s 37)

submitted 17 days ago • 0 comments

nothing compares to being cozy and warm in bed

submitted 18 days ago • 1 comment

For NYmag, I wrote about Trans Passports, Trumps diplomatic incident with Colombia, and my attempts to leave the US

submitted 20 days ago • 1 comment

my parents.. they make me crazy

submitted 21 days ago • 1 comment

if you haven’t been held hostage to the music taste of eight 24-year-old drunk sorority sisters for an hour on a bus, have you really lived

submitted 22 days ago • 0 comments

i leave to pee for THIRTY SECONDS and my father is bragging about me to complete strangers

submitted 22 days ago • 1 comment

neither of my parents had heard of prop 8 before i mentioned it today

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gustav holsts the planets doesn’t include pluto. boom, mic drop, take that pluto-is-a-planet truthers

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women on the verge of falling asleep

submitted 31 days ago • 2 comments

small world, the arthousy draggy cabaret place I frequented in my early 20s was run by a niche famous director who’s directing one of the sf operas next year

submitted 31 days ago • 0 comments

did you know you can still get stress periods if you’re 5+ years on testosterone. fun little surprises

submitted 33 days ago • 1 comment