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Vivian. She/Her. Purveyor of Femdom Audio Smut. 🎧🫦 Kink Blogger & Podcaster. 📝Muse. 🏳️‍⚧️🏳️‍🌈💙 Too big for your britches. Trans Lives Matter. Sex work is werk. Instructor of @theroughsubbe.bsky.social 18+. https://allmylinks.com/thegentledomme
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Working on a very hot premature ejaculation "mesmerization" audio today. I'm finally figuring out how to use multi layer tracks and background sounds to enhance my own audios. The down side is they take longer to make, and I don't know if people will really pay more for them or care.

These are the heroes we need.

Excellent trolling by the US army chorus? 🤷‍♀️🤣

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I’ll be there. Anonymously. 🤣🥰

So, I’ve been rewatching Pose because @theroughsubbe.bsky.social hadn’t seen it. Does anyone know why all the trans women are hetero? Why did I always think that all trans women were hetero & then realized later that most of the trans women I knew of were actually sapphic?

I’ll take a short time out from posting about America’s quick descent into authoritarianism to say I had some really hot sex this morning. I normally don’t like to look people in the eyes when I’m fucking. But I did. And I enjoyed it.

Lol. I don’t really even like this song but just had someone message me that they wanted to be my dog. Woof. Good puppy! 🐶🤷‍♀️😊

I thought you might like to know a bit about my new morning routine, which consists of avoiding looking at the news, then 30 minutes later taking a little peek, then spending about an hour in a state of burning rage as I read about the continuing exploits of literally the worst humans in the world

I’m making a lot of content today. I’m considering prioritizing content and cutting back on phone calls. My mood is just so up and down. It’s really hard to feel sexy in this current environment.

The revelry is not over. Although I am fading….

@theroughsubbe.bsky.social Looking dapper. 🥰🥰🥰🥰

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Brunching with @theroughsubbe.bsky.social while the country burns. #nola

BAAB. 💋💋💋Alas, I did not make it to the Saturn Bar. I was too tired. So much fun! The dream of the 90s is actually alive in New Orleans. 🤣 I felt like I was at Club USA. I kept trying to find people in Krewe de Kink but 50% were in fetish wear. #dommelife Doing it tomorrow!

Now I literally have to decide whether to go to a dance party with all these fabulous artistic people and a satanic ABBA cover band OR go dancing with John Cameron Mitchell, Jake Shears, and Amber Martin DJing. This is an impossible bounty of riches.

Just a few pictures from the Krewe Boheme parade tonight. I took so much video! I could have taken 1000 pictures!

The Krewe Boheme parade was amazing! So much creativity! WOW! 🙏🥰 I cheered loudest for Krewe De Kink and received many lube packets. 🤣 Will anyone sponsor me? I want to be in Krewe De Kink! 🔐⛓️

My response to Democratic members of Congress who are upset because "people keep calling our office" is that I will simply call more.

Do not mess with librarians. They let complete strangers borrow their books. For a living. Even the hardcovers. They are so much stronger than you know.

Having an extremely kinky evening. If by kinky you mean in bed watching Severance. Those melon heads are pretty freaky.

If someone would like to cashapp me 1,000 dollars to buy all the cool art I see, I’m going wild. Meanwhile, I bought a shirt. 🤣And cheesecake! ❤️💋

They were so kind & gracious. I cried a little & felt like a giant dork. I’m not someone who is really interested in meeting famous people, but this person has meant so much to me. It was a really lovely random experience. I massively love New Orleans. A big part of me would love to live here.

Tonight I got to meet someone who basically created the soundtrack of my life, from when I was in my early twenties into my forties. Their voice inspired me and helped me feel understood when I felt like no one understood me. It lifted me up and was the catharsis I needed when it all went wrong.

Night on the town. #dommelife #medusa #bewbs

Doing online domination, which is so anonymous, gives you an up close view into a lot of men’s fears about their insecurity about being “manly.” There are so many men turned on by the idea of being cucked by a man stronger and more dominant than they are. And this humiliation is erotic to them.

Why be a ‘morning person’ when you can be a ‘wandering-the-halls-of-your-crumbling-estate-in-a-nightgown-at-midnight’ person? #WritingCommunity #Booksky

www.npr.org/2025/02/06/n... Good article that says what is actually happening. Trans people are the canary in the coal mine.

This morning I went out and did a little retail therapy. I'm going to Mardi Gras (season) in a few days to see Krewe Du Vieux and Krewe Boheme. I got a few cute things. I do find that as I get older, I care a lot less about how men perceive me and dress for my own enjoyment.

The irony of this picture of young girls standing around a convicted rapist claiming to protect them from sexual assault, from a group who are themselves often the target of sexual assault from men like this one. #irony #fucktrump #fuckthiscountry

You know it's unprecedented times when Millennials are voluntarily making phone calls.

Does anyone else have to psych themselves up to take a shower? I hate showering in the morning, & I know I’ll feel better if I do it at night. But the effort to leave the bed, turn on water, wash hair, dry. When I could just rot in this bed. Oh wait. I’m actually wearing sexy lingerie, sir.

Ye olde #RoombaTax on fetlife They always think I have a Roomba fetish that I want them to play out.

This is an ad for a defense contractor but it reminds me of all the cuckolds I talk to who are obsessed with how much sperm “alphas” produce.