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theovanyar.bsky.social
Queer writer, reader, and artist of many mediums. She/they and Jew(ish). Fandom-addled, asexual, AuDHD, bipolar, and lover of the Oxford Comma. 18+ by a lot, profanity loving, bastard kid of a nerd. Minion to a feline overlord named Spock.
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I am nauseous from stress. Hate this so much.

submitted 8 days ago • 0 comments

I hate car shopping, but hope to have a new to me vehicle by the end of the weekend.

submitted 12 days ago • 0 comments

Not okay, but just gotta keep going.

submitted 13 days ago • 0 comments

Anyone else super exhausted

submitted 20 days ago • 1624 comments

Nauseous from work stress. Must remember to be kind to myself on bad days. Also, I want chipotle. Lol

submitted 23 days ago • 0 comments

Fuck Nazis.

submitted 25 days ago • 0 comments

💥 New Zealand knows what’s up!!

submitted 25 days ago • 763 comments

Sacrifice hair color to the mental health gods!!!! Muwahahahaahahahaahahaha. Also, my roommate is awesome for helping me. That is all.

submitted 28 days ago • 0 comments

Well, we aren’t a month in and we have the first concentration camp. It’s worth noting that for years the Biden admin defended outdoor detention which laid the groundwork for this, but this is still likely going to be worse by a significant degree.

submitted 28 days ago • 3 comments

My most metal saying: I look at it this way: I will have happiness, if I have to drag it screaming from the gaping maw of my depression. I fight for my whimsy, struggle for my joy. But fuck if I’m not going to keep going toe to toe with my misery and bloody its teeth as often as I can. #mentalhealth

submitted 35 days ago • 0 comments

Eye exam today!

submitted 39 days ago • 0 comments

are you ever so stressed that you can physically feel the anxiety shaving years off your life? 🙃

submitted 42 days ago • 2 comments

I hate powering through feeling sick. Not covid sick, but like, headache, body aches, and stomach aches. I just want sleep.

submitted 42 days ago • 0 comments

Is fuckin’ cold

submitted 43 days ago • 1 comment

This billboard says it all.

submitted 43 days ago • 960 comments

I'm uncomfortable with the inevitable "his work was always crap" because it seems to say "you can tell who the predators are by how well they write" and ... no no you absolutely cannot, that's the whole point.

submitted 44 days ago • 267 comments

‘Nickname’ is not ‘nick’ + ‘name.’ It was originally ‘ekename.’ ‘Eke’ was the Middle English word for “also” or “in addition.” Since ‘ekename’ began with a vowel, people used ‘an’ before it. Over time, 'an ekename' became 'a nickname.'

submitted 43 days ago • 38 comments

I can’t sleep for shit tonight.

submitted 44 days ago • 0 comments

This is so outrageously disrespectful "Trump ignores Jimmy Carter mourning period and returns flags to full height at Mar-a-Lago"

submitted 44 days ago • 154 comments

So sore. Deep cleaning the bathroom is hard work. Ibuprofen, save me!!!

submitted 44 days ago • 0 comments

I welcome miracles into my life

submitted 49 days ago • 0 comments

Please stop saying "rolled back diversity goals" and start saying "the company capitulated to a segregationist movement." www.nbcnews.com/news/amp/rcn...

submitted 50 days ago • 688 comments

$0/200

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Real talk: I’ve been eating cup noodles for the last two weeks for lunch so I can afford dinner groceries. Why did it cost me $82 for one goddamned week of food for three people???

submitted 49 days ago • 0 comments

Is snowing! ❄️❄️❄️

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I’m so tired of being tired. 🙃

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Groceries are so damn expensive… Yikes.

submitted 52 days ago • 0 comments

Well. That’s an interesting start to the new year. No hot water. In winter. In Indiana. Anyone got a couple hundred I could borrow? Lol. /mostly joking/

submitted 54 days ago • 0 comments

Happy 2025, folks!

submitted 57 days ago • 0 comments

BREAKING NEWS: multiple sources have confirmed that the person reading this is worthy of love

submitted 58 days ago • 314 comments

-sighs deeply-

submitted 58 days ago • 0 comments

Daily reminder.

submitted 58 days ago • 170 comments

Till I met white midwestern ladies I had no idea that the word "honey" could be deployed in so many different ways, from term of endearment to nuclear heat seeking missile

submitted 58 days ago • 67 comments

I’m sure he wants the history of it all told his way.

submitted 58 days ago • 1903 comments

Library books for this week!

submitted 62 days ago • 0 comments

Happy Christmas to those celebrating today. And joyous all the other holidays!

submitted 63 days ago • 0 comments

Do you know how much CEO pay has skyrocketed since 1978? 100%? 500%? Try 1,085% Meanwhile, the $7.25/hr fed. minimum wage hasn't budged in 15 years and the tipped min. wage has been $2.13/hr since 1991. This is what I mean when I say the system is rigged.

submitted 65 days ago • 1032 comments

We're getting closer to the deadline Soo sar were at $80/225 $145 to go and I got Soo much hopes that this need will be fully met I immensely appreciate all that have come through for me with the donations and sharing this , I'm grateful 💚💚🫶

submitted 65 days ago • 2 comments

Writing Question: How do you separate the art from the artist when dealing with fanfic? Like, Lovecraft, Zimmer-Bradley, and recently JKR and Neil Gaiman. I love writing certain fandoms, but am wondering if I’m a “bad” queer for writing in problematic fandoms. Any advice or opinions?

submitted 65 days ago • 2 comments

Woke up in agony. Grin and bear it, I guess. And make friends with the pain med bottle. Ugh.

submitted 69 days ago • 0 comments

I’ve made it halfway through the week. Only two more days till the weekend!

submitted 70 days ago • 0 comments