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The gods love me but they are also cruel. I have never been confused about why I am an emotional masochist. This cryptic note brought to you by hard conversations, strokes of Fortune, dodged bullets and a hug from the right person at the right time. #bdsm #masochism. #ESM

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Good morning Talk to yourself nice and have a wonderful day on purpose 🫶🏿☺️

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Anyone I know who has done a virtual 5K Run? My club just became a coalition partner of ncsfreedom.org and I'm thinking over my options to do a fundraiser. The intersection of health/self-care and resistance is inspiring me to work out & fun run with other kinky folks is a good place to start!

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Take a few more days 📝 Apply! Re-apply! And contact us if you have questions about the archives and artifacts available for research at the LA&M. Photo by Efrain J. Gonzalez from his collection at the LA&M.

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I sad I wasn't able to hit up any of the protests in my area today. But I have a call scheduled with a bunch of other lovely folks who also run Kink/BDSM spaces tonight to talk about navigating this moment. I'm glad to have a space where I can make direct and immediate changes to resist.

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I redid the art under our dry bar at the club this weekend. Delighted with the progressive pride flag theme and a home for some of the DIY toys I've made over the years #BDSM #DungeonDecor #QueerEnough

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Happy caturday, y'all

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Y'all gotta get comfortable talking about pornography and defending its right to exist and for people to look at it, even if you don't (but especially if you DO).

submitted 14 days ago • 27 comments

I resent having to have so much anger in my heart all the time. Because it’s not my default. I’m a happy person by default.

submitted 15 days ago • 64 comments

Are you a Therapist or even Relationship Coach and wanna attend a training that actually centers and discusses how to do therapy with Non-Monogamous, Kinky and/or Queer relationships? Join me Thursday March 20th!! chicagominds.co/event/non-mo... #TherapistSky #BlackTherapistSky #SocialWorkSky

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I posted a writing on FL about stray cats and community. It felt good to write out that I feel unwelcome over there. I'm rolling my eyes at the MAGA adjacent kinksters commenting they have also lost community. My Black & Queer self has no energy to comfort the people who ruined it for all of us

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I took all three of my cats to the vet today and that is quite enough emotional masochism for a long while.

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Love this article - guarding against despair and depravity seems so vital right now. This article gives good inspiration and lights a path.

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Kink event attendance has rhythms each year re: waves of folks discovering their local scene. I jokingly refer to the peaks as Newbie Year, Run-springa & Cuffing. People are hungrier than ever for connection. I'm distracting myself by posting and praying that people will find each other

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It makes me glad that somebody in my house is getting sleep this good. I see what this cat is enjoying and I want this for me.

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Reminding myself tonight that joy is resistance and rest is a weapon

submitted 27 days ago • 0 comments

Get This Book!!

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I've been here for less than a month and now apparently I need to leave because these chucklefucks don't want to ban one of the most odious and notorious transphobes out there. I guess @safety.bsky.app is entirely okay with this place being a nazi bar after all.

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A lot of things suck in this lifetime, but I remember when the thought of this was incomprehensible. This is beautiful.

submitted 79 days ago • 103 comments

I chose to come here mostly to avoid garbage like him. And I’ll only stay here if the folks running the place keep the garbage out. This has gotta get fixed

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Thinking about Nikki Giovanni today and hearing "Even my errors are correct" from her poem Ego tripping. It sounds like hubris on the surface, but taught me that mistakes are lessons & come at the right time when you are ready to learn. she will be missed. #BDSM #SelfTied #RopeBondage #BlackKink

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"When you have a healing spirit, in this life you're going to attract a lot of damaged people. Just because you attract damaged people does not mean you have to heal them" #blackkink #blackbdsm #BlackSky #shibari #decorativerope #ropeplay

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Did some advanced needleplay today for the only place I cultivate negativity. Gotta get those play papers in order for a slutty new year! #BDSM #STIScreening #KnowYourStatus

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Successful launch of the Do Me Decimal cabinet 😂 #BDSM #DungeonParty #Kink #SaferSex

submitted 82 days ago • 0 comments

Under the surface of the BDSM iceberg. Share it.

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The hardware answer- an omni directional carabiner to encourage me to self suspend more: m.petzl.com/US/en/Sport/... The software answer - a hank of wool rope. All rope is good rope, but when it comes to fibers, I get a little pokemon and want to collect them all: www.twistedmonk.com/search?q=woo...

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