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Plural queer aro aceflux autistic ADHD trans girl. She/Her. 36. Friendly writer nerd. Girlfriend of @nesstheenby.bsky.social πŸ³οΈβ€βš§πŸ³οΈβ€πŸŒˆ πŸ‡΅πŸ‡Έ - Alters: Naomi, Penny, Razor, Sydney, Vanity, Blake, Mara, Zero
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🧡 Cis people, if you meet trans people, DON'T: - Start a sentence with "Don't take offense to this, but-" - Misgender them - Refuse to apologize for it - Note they're wearing a pronoun badge and STILL misgender them - Ask what their deadname was - Criticize their choice to wear a pronoun badge 1/4

I'm just going to post it here actually for anyone who needs it

Picard once said "It is possible to commit no mistakes and still lose. That is not a weakness, that is life." Good to know, Picard. I can't apply that to myself though, so can we try "It's possible to fuck up so many times it's like your trying to lose on purpose, that's not weakness, that's life?"

I visited an AIDS memorial today and I looked at the names on the ground and just started crying. Those people should still be with us today and it’s our duty to fight like hell for their memory

I find it wild how white brits are treated as this sort of sacred parchment, this untouched pool that foreigners would muddy and make unclean and like...you do realise that we are the mutation? we're the divergence? we do not need to be white, so fucking what it's not that big of a deal

β€œTrans people are mean to me in the replies.” The people in power are trying to kill us. Do you understand? We do not have time for nice. We do not have time for whatever compromise you have in mind. If you don’t know well enough by now, why should I believe you hold anything but malice towards us?

I'd like to announce that as of literally a few days ago, the surgery, flights and hotels are fully funded and booked πŸ³οΈβ€βš§οΈ Thank you so much for this I wouldn't have gotten here without you Any further donations will be used for travel costs / recovery items & anything left over will be paid forward!

AAAAAAAAAAAAA 😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍

Don't overthink it. Just four albums you like that come to mind? #music #musicsky

- Content warnings - Descriptive ALT text - Pronouns Labels - Blocking Jesse Singal Long ago the four nations lived on Bluesky in harmony

Watched a doc on Charlotte von Mahlsdorf - a trans woman who survived the Nazis (beat her own Nazi father to death!), survived a brutally homophobic regime in East Germany, and then had to survive skinhead attacks, but never stopped finding and loving other queer people, and creating her own worlds.

Talk about trans men this Pride month πŸ³οΈβ€βš§οΈ

Fuck the FBI

labour mps putting out pride statements as if pride wasn't created in direct opposition to people like them

Businesses will think of this month and ask "How can we make queer and trans people rising up and fighting for their civil rights all about us making money and sharing none of it with queer and trans people?" Answer: You can't. This flag πŸ³οΈβ€πŸŒˆ is not yours, it's ours. Happy Pride, pig brickers! πŸ³οΈβ€βš§οΈ

Oh right, if you try to use sex-repulsed people as a bludgeon to push shitty 'no kink at pride' talking points you can fuck right off. We belong at pride, kink belongs at pride, but you fucking don't

Spend some time this pride month advocating for non-partnering sex and romance repulsed aroaces

Here's a story I wrote CW: rape, CSAM, CSA, Self-harm, blood, violence

A lesbian kiss is such a cop-out. Next star wars property should feature two men kissing. Just two big, muscular men kissing. They're both gruff and have beards. and they're mechanics or something so they're covered in grime and dirt. Disney should do that. And you know what, forget the star wars

I was so worried my tattoo wouldn't be perfect or I'd end up hating it but it's been less than 2 days and I already can't imagine myself without it. I love it so much

Happy pride everyone! Fuck cops and bring a brick (and bricks for your friends!)

happy pride pay queer sex workers!

cw: csa i think if your definition of a impossible standard is not raping your child you shouldnt be a parent

Depressing thought: I'm 36 which makes me as old as Homer Simpson. Uplifting thought: I'm 36 and I'm nowhere near as much of a fuck up in life as Homer Simpson.

So, I think it's time I begin, in detailed specifics, talking about the mess that is Unbound / Boundless as a book publisher, in essence stealing most of a years royalties from me and many other authors, as a result of poor financial decisions, and legal BS. Please read and share this thread.

Hurting your children = You fail as a parent Hurting your children = You fail as a parent Hurting your children = You fail as a parent Hurting your children = You fail as a parent Hurting your children = You fail as a parent Never knowing you were hurting your children = YOU STILL FAIL AS A PARENT

Wonder if there's a trans fem wrestler whose submission hold is called "The Gridlock"

I’m not a fucking political talking point, I’m a god damn person

We could all do with some wholesome trans content and this had me bawling: here’s the moment where Beth McCarthy gave a trans person a new name at her concert. πŸŽ₯ @Bethmaymcarthy on instagram

We are not a culture war that needs "resolving," we are fucking people who deserve to live and aren't being allowed to.

Can't I just go work somewhere where Susan from Hazbin Hotel is yelling bitchy shit at me all day long? That would be genuinely delightful compared to what I go through in my current job. Better yet, employ me AS Susan. Pay me to tell the darling daughter of Lucifer she's fucking mediocre. πŸ₯°

I am sick of my life not being treated *like life.* Life is sacred. Life is miraculous. Life is EVERYTHING. But transphobes make me feel like my life is none of these things and never will be. That is an absolutely anguishing thing to feel. I don't deserve that. No trans person deserves that.

I'm the one who gridlocks

The. Least. You. Can. Do. If. You. Misgender. A. Trans. Person. Is. Fucking. APOLOGISE. Do. The. BARE. GODDAMN. MINIMUM.

pride is next week pride wasn't brought to you by delta air lines, microsoft, coca-cola or even the democratic party. it was brought to you by trans women throwing bricks at cops and lesbians taking care of gay men dying of AIDS during reagan. do not forget where we came from. now more than ever.

Try this on for size, cowards. Let trans people be society's big influencers in gender exploration and personal evolution. Allow us to normalize people finding ways of feeling good within themselves outside gender norms established at birth. Let us be the cool thing in culture INSTEAD OF KILLING US.

I keep trying to wake up at a reasonable hour, but a voice keeps telling me to go back to sleep. It's me, the voice is me.

The next step after this is to stop people from changing the gender markers on their passports in order to "comply" with the Supreme Court ruling

None of us in the queer community will ever surrender to hate. If you see us waving white flags, we're actually just waving our rainbow flags really really fast.