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After an awful bad day at work, I reminded myself of good in the world. I wrote this blog last night, my first blog since June 2024 www.iamadandy.com/iamadandy/bl...

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Fed up and going to look cute tonight at Crush, because I am old disabled neurodivergent misshapen black gay fem queer dandy who can look like this and that is all GayThreads

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Your clues to this week's episode of @rupaulsdragcon.bsky.social

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Story Time (and I want to shamelessly promote my lewks): Decades ago, when Ramrod was still in DC, I was there being me, when this older leather daddy approached me and ordered(!) me to be his s|äv3. Now aside from the Race Of It All, and the Consent Of It All, I said to him:

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Not exactly a fan of St. Valentine's Day. My only boyfriend Larry d13d August 2009, 6 months before my only (that I know of) opportunity to celebrate. I will somehow still be happy for LGBTQ+ couples, throuples, and situationals on this day.. as I personally wince #valentinesday #lgbtq

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A better shot. I am proud that I can do this at last

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So in a work meeting the team lead asked us to put in our favorite emoji in the chat. I did my usual: "Mine doesn't exist here." It actually doesn't, because it's this: 🌈

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In case you didn't know that fashion exists in DC, you're welcome, and Happy Holidays! December Flower Factory Yuletide Ball lewks. Damn this pic is 🎄 🔥! #dandy #dandylion #dandyism #steampunk #fashion #fashionstyle #style #dapper #fancy #maximalism #maximalist #maximalistfashion #maximaliststyle

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I need to stop making "friends" with people who wouldn't even blink if something bad happened to me because I'm not hot enough or yt enough or goth enough or steampunk enough or compliant enough or 🤡 enough to be accepted by them

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Imma gonna say it: In a weekend where I was laughed at by yt Christians for sharing my pain at the hands of the church, where I was, again, multiple times, receiving disapproving looks from cis yt gays for having my shirt off, and paying $319 in medical bills in one day.. (1/2)

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Having people, especially women and non-gay queer people, absolutely adore my historical black queer dandy fashion art is always so wonderful.. ..but there's something personally powerful about a gay man being sexually into me when I'm shirtless with other shirtless men (last night)

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The Grammys were a time for Black and Queer artists, as well as our blessed mother Lady Gaga, to highlight the importance of Black and Brown artistry, of the trans community, of healthcare, and of diversity and inclusivity. (1/2)

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The Ball was a wonderful time at one of my favorite gay bars, Crush, with my friends there to support me and enjoy the moment. It was powerful; it was magical; it was defiant. Our joy is an act of saying "F*q U" to those who are scared of compassion, love, acceptance, inclusion, Black and Brown Joy.

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I need San Francisco I need Flower Factory I need a Dandy Walk at a steampunk con I need a 🔥 guy to be sexually into me I need the London Colour Walk I need to go to the Met Gala I need PTown Carnival I need this fekkink black/brown queer ball #lgbtq #lgbtqia

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First time in a while due to depression over everything, money issues, and the polar vortex. Good to be back, but I'll never be a dedicated gymrat; I am me

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I really, really, really X 100000000000000 would like to scroll through social media for one hot microsecond without seeing his face. And I need a ball. Thursday night couldn't come soon enough

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Thank you, @bsky.app . While I truly wish that my art and messages got better and wider engagement here, I appreciate the distractions of fashion, drag, and, ahem, gay stuff on here. Thank you

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Watching people celebrate the ban on TikTok, where my dandy fashion art thrived the most, these same people who refuse to support my black queer dandy fashion art, is depressing and disgusting. It mattered to us vulnerable and marginalized people who can't get thousands of likes on Instagram

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Well, I am very proud of my queer community for not interacting with the 15-20 MAGA, hats and all, who invaded one of my queer spaces tonight, obviously to cause trouble

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Watching guys literally throw themselves last night onto a guy openly showing a 🍊 t-shirt, only because he's tall and has a cowboy hat, to the point of ******ng his 🍆 , t-shirt and all, makes me feel hopeless

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No matter how dark things will get, our queer light will never dim #flowerfactory #fyp #lgbt #lgbtq #dandy #dandyism #steampunk #fashion ##fashionstyle #style #dapper #fancy #maximalism #maximalist #maximalistfashion #maximaliststyle #dopaminefashion #colorfulfashion

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Without downloading any new pics, describe your gender with one image

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Showing off a different style because this black gay fem queer dandy has a range #mal2025

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Dedicated to the memory of the [thankfully] late [never] great Anita Bryant. Nom

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Honestly, I am very worried about Meta. My greatest engagement is through Instagram, Threads, and TikTok for my black queer dandy fashion art, but here I get extremely little to none, and I don't know how to change that. My art and its reach matter to me. This sucks

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@theebillyporter @kingofbingo @csiriano @metgala2025_official #dandy #fashion #metgala2025 I hope you all get to see this and invite me to join y'all at the Met Gala this year. I am Black; I am a Dandy (award-winning dandy at that), and I have style. I really want to go and fulfill a dream

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Seriously, I want to go so badly #MetGala #MetGala2025 #BlackDandy #dandy #dandyism #fashion #style #fancy #maximalism #maximalist ##maximalistfashion #maximaliststyle #dopaminefashion #colorfulfashion

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I went to the fun New Year's Day party at @tradebardc , won free VIP tickets for @worldpridedc in a raffle, and I looked like this. "Winner winner chicken dinner" -- Trixie Mattel #2025 #newyear #dandy #dandyism ##steampunk #fashion #fashionstyle #style #dapper #fancy

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This was my Yt Revenge lewk for DC Drag Awards 2024 when I wasn't nominated for Best Dressed. I showed up in this. I am a part of the queer community. Dandyism is part of queer history. I belong,and I showed how much that night. July 2024 #2024Memories #DCDragAwards #dandy #dandyism #fashion #lgbtq

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It's that time of the year again #holidays #holidayseason

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