only once on here has a man called me ugly and he tried to play it off like we were having fun (I said something slightly self-effacing and a total stranger jokingly “agreed”)
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I think there is something great about just existing without the burden of my appearance buuuuuut if I thought I was better looking or was better at makeup or taking pictures etc I would like that sort of attention. it definitely hurts worse to try and look nice, or catch someone’s eye, and fail.
I certainly don’t need anyone’s pity but when people talk about dating stuff and I literally have never experienced the kind of thing they’re talking about? That is really horrendously painful. You’d think I’d be used to it.
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