No I didn't say that at all. Calling someone tall doesn't mean they aren't violent. But if you call someone tall and don't say they are violent then it was your choice to focus on their height.
But we are. You mentioned that I came across as dismissive. But calling someone dismissive doesn't mean they aren't smart, charismatic, excellent and the king of the universe. By your logic, you pretty much implied it.
Agreed I was focusing on you being dismissive. And if it was more important to the conversation and outcomes that you are smart and charismatic then it would have been poor communication for me to omit those more important factors. You focused on stupid when malice is more important and concerning.
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And I accept the compliment wholeheartedly.