arghlita.bsky.social
Actually autistic, queer, disabled veteran, mother, wife. Proudly anti fascist, pro Black, pro Brown, pro Native, pro Disabled. Loves dogs and cats, games, own voices stories, speculative fiction, bad bitches and soft bois of all genders, art by human hand
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Padded push-up bra plus a deep/loose neckline. It’s just an excuse to go shirt fishing.
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Next up I recommend having an attractive person toss grapes into your cleavage to be fished out for comedy and/or foreplay. Titty grape toss is good clean fun with boobs.
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And Nickel is crazy 😂
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I mean… the joke slaps but the meal didn’t.
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An off-duty cop who ate lunch there walked out to his car, heard their description on the radio, turned around, walked back in, and arrested both guys waiting for their order.
There was a little bit of a wait. 🤷🏻♀️
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Okay so I only lived in NE Ok for three years but I have the wildest story when anybody doubts how good Braums is. Two guys robbed a bank in Bartlesville, successfully got away with tens of thousands in cash, but were apprehended because they STOPPED FOR BRAUMS on the way out of town!!
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Dissociate because it threatens their identity as winners.
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Okay I love this for you and want it for myself.
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This perfectly explains why I can only really enjoy watching psych while I’m sick. When I’m feeling better it’s not funny at all. I recognize the show doesn’t change but being sick makes it viscerally relatable.
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What would it take? Is it possible? I believe that all organization is mirrored across levels of granularity, like fractals. How can I continue this work inside myself and in others because reducing pain and restriction is genuinely life-changing?
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My shoulder has full range of motion and is pain free for the first time in decades and I was able to unearth and start working through a 30 year old trauma that I hadn’t even properly understood and like… how do I share this with other people? How do we reintegrate at the level of community?
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I don’t think they are better off either. I’m saying that since this study was self-report, all it tells us is that *they* think they are healthier.
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I’m more generous. One day, they can have running water and electricity but no hot water or water pressure, and the electricity has brown outs. They will have to do without central air or heating, internet, cable, or any food outside of 1/30th of the snap benefits they allow their constituents.
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I needed 5-7 years experience or a master’s degree to qualify for a GS5-7-9 position at grade 7, which would have been a pay cut from my contractor pay of 40k annually… in 2003. The position was the same job I was already doing as a contractor. My GS boss wanted to hire me and couldn’t.
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Me: why is that a problem? Are minorities treated unfairly in our society?
And watch their brain implode like a dying star.
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Health was determined by self-report as was length of sleep. It seems more likely to me that people in Japan both believe they need less sleep and believe they are healthier. As a military vet, I can tell you no amount of acculturation prepares you for the physical and mental impact of sleep loss.
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She is a nurse but close enough
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I’ve been borderline obsessed with cross-dressing women for most of my life. I love a woman in menswear. I love drag kings. I love playing with gender ideology like it is clay. I think any conviction we have is worth examining, deeply. I’m confident in my gender identity because I checked.
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I stopped to count syllables because I thought this was a haiku. Now I want to make it a haiku.
Today is perfect
I’m unstoppable/stable
With my free coffee
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“Collapse leaves authors unpaid.”
Once again, I am begging journalists to stop using the passive voice when the active voice is fully justified by facts.
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Yes, they’ve got me. I mindlessly object to paying money I earned with my own labor for the product of an algorithm, when there are artists who do the work and could use my money for better purposes. Art is obviously a product and not a relationship, a communication, or a glimpse of holiness.
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The primary people I saw complaining about lockdown who had no legitimate grievances, to my mind, were people like executives complaining about not getting to go in to their big corner office and having to spend time with (gasp) their own spouse and kids. That’s their own fault and no one else’s.
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I don’t want to discount the real pain people experience from forced isolation but the people who were pushed to breaking by being enclosed with… their own families that they created? Not like stuck with parents, adults “stuck” with spouse and children they brought into this world? Skill issue guys.
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Speed running mortality at the abortion clinic
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You guys had dental?
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They outright rejected the idea that they should treat his pain after refusing to diagnose his condition or treat his other symptoms. She sends me videos of him screaming and crying in pain and I just cannot understand how a person who claims to be in medicine can tell her oh yeah eat more pears.
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I’m angry and I feel helpless. Periodically he goes back to the potty and screams and cries with pain trying to move whatever is lodged in his colon. This is day three. His brothers get to listen to him screaming in pain day and night. His mom doesn’t sleep. But they wouldn’t help with the pain.
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He’s a child. Kindergarten age. Supposedly in one of the most advanced and prosperous societies in the world. He’s had digestive issues that she has exhaustively documented since his infancy. And the best they can offer is… this was caused by bad mothering. Even his dad believes that now.
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Being dehydrated can make constipation worse. When they denied drinks she asked if they were running an IV. No, not unless she was willing to admit him to the hospital. Why? So you can starve him, refuse liquids, and give him another painfully torturous enema that does NOTHING? She took him home.
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I would like to add that I’m not a doctor but I cannot imagine how it served the patient to only do manual palpation of the abdomen before denying all intake of food and liquids for hours and giving him an enema that did nothing. They told his mom she couldn’t give him water to sip. Why?
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I wonder how much his diet will improve if they cut his already meager benefits down to $10 per month for fruits and vegetables. I wonder how they will respond in a year or ten years when his guts are destroyed from endless laxatives. I wonder how they will make this his mother’s fault, some more.
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That he needs a more varied and higher quality diet and also, that she should be giving him stronger laxatives every single day preventatively. OTC laxative abuse plus more fruits and veggies should clear up a problem enemas can’t even help with sometimes.
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Yes. $10 per month, doubled to $20 by a local cash-match on first $10 of EBT funds at the farmers market only, would buy 4 pints of fresh berries. It’s not unusual for local farmers markets to incentivize EBT with matching funds. It’s $5 a pint, one pint per week would be the entire allowance.
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If she didn’t want it read that way she should have written something else. 🤷🏻♀️
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They want the poor to pay with shame instead of cash.
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Of course this leaves no money whatsoever for vegetables.
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Alternatively you could afford 2-3lbs of one type of apple per week, for one apple per day. You could have an uncomfortable amount of bananas at their current loss-leader pricing, assuming those don’t give you acid reflux like some kids experience from excess bananas.
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That’s two pints of fresh berries from the farmers market. I guess with the doubling they offer on the first $10, you could afford one pint of berries per week. Your child would have a small portion of fresh berries, once per day, for 3-4 days assuming that picked ripe berries wouldn’t turn sooner.