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carlslj.bsky.social
Same handle as the old place, still won't use my surname because of my job. Lefty, Feminist, Atheist, Graphic Designer, Mum, British (born & bred), Australian (migrant to Whadjuk Land, Boorloo - Perth).
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I saw that, just before my usually apolitical partner called and said he voted blue (Nedlands) 😭 and I had the next hour on mute, missed what Hastie said. Anyway, if BZ thinks the leadership is going to land in his lap he hasn’t factored in the new Cott MP who seems like a force to be reckoned with.
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“He also voiced support for Elon Musk, Tommy Robinson and Alternative for Germany, the far-right anti-immigration party.” Yeah, complete mystery.
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18 for me, and any sense of being homesick around this time of year is soon forgotten when reminded that the country is full of these types.
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Same. The weekend was exhausting - so much driving, and I only had to take one daughter to classes as the other is injured. After they went to bed last night I had a one hour phone call to partner and then fell asleep with my contacts in!
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Yep, weird priorities. American* friends back in the UK would say the Brits and Aussies in our friend group had "potty mouths" which made them sound like little kids snitching to mum that big sis said a naughty word. *My Canadian friends were also quite judgy about it.
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Will never understand their pearl-clutching about swearing yet they don't blink an eyelid about mass shootings in schools.
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It’s not media hype, it’s ordinary people being arseholes. Some of the comments under her Instagram posts are like “you need to put some make up on”, “you look terrible” and “you should do something about your eyebrows”. Usually women about the same age as her.
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You should tag her, I reckon she’d love it!
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You're right. Have been on the periphery of one of those careers and the people doing it only hang out with each other due to the antisocial hours and they all think they're doing something important!
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Surely by the time you leave school/university and start in said profession, you just know, ie from being around other people having conversations and so on.
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Took me a moment to realise what it is!
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Same. Not only did I block them, I muted as many versions of their names as possible, with and without hashtags. Still they showed up.
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I'd agree with that. The ones who know how much we beat ourselves up over things like working full time and not being around as much, ie at the school gate, so reassure us we're raising good kids. Ditto when they're going through it!
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Rare occasion I turned on breakfast radio this week, 7West-owned station reported that a poll in The West had BZ as preferred Lib leader. Me: “Of course it does”. *Switches back to podcast*
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And Josh!
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Neeva, you’re here!
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Can confirm. Or they’re gifts. Perhaps she thinks if we can afford to buy pot plants, for ourselves or others, we’re paid too much. Anything above the breadline is too much.
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Speaking as a WA public servant - fuck Gina. Also, we bring in our own damn pot plants.
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I just caught up, I’m so sorry about Gemma x
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She lived in Sweden and was incredibly supportive when I went though my divorce. It would’ve been her birthday this week and the messages coming up on my fb newsfeed fill me with sadness that I never “met” her. An incredibly special group of (mainly) women. They are absolutely my friends. 3/3
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When the forum was closed we found each other on fb and have a private group there. We supported each other through every major event. I’ll never forget the support I received. At least two have passed away and while I never met them, then most recent one hit me as though I had. /2
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I met a bunch of amazing women on a sub group of the old Lonely Planet forum 20 years ago. Some of them I’ve met in real life (one is in my city and my daughters know her), others I’ve met when visiting each other’s cities but most I’ve never met in person. /1
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I’m so sorry Rob & family. RIP Ollie
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Same. I don’t choose to hang out with them in my day-to-day life. Why would I here?
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And when they can’t pay the fines - more indigenous people in prison. What happens to the kids then? Really well thought out, well done 🙄
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Next minute screenshot of same person is featured on Ask Aubry - “none of you superficial bitches who won’t give me the time of day will ever know what a catch you’re missing out on…”
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Mutual trust, and that works for us. Meanwhile, the bullying she experiences is in person, in school. SM contact with her martial arts mates (different schools), cousins on the other side of our city and cousins on the other side of the world (I’m British) is her lifeline. 2/2
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I’m well aware that if I banned my 13yo from SM altogether she would find a way to it somehow. For now, I trust her with what I allow her to have (Insta/Snapchat) and don’t snoop but reserve the right to ask her to hand over the phone (that I pay for) if she ever give cause for concern. 1/2
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Yep, they'll see it as a challenge and will end up bypassing not only the govt (good), but those of us parents who are actually responsible with what we do or don't allow our kids to have.
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Yeah I don’t see anywhere near enough people questioning that - how proof of age is going to be implemented and the fact that means ALL of us having to hand over our personal details. Oh you’ve put your birth year in as 1974 - you can enter then 🙄 As if that’s going to happen!
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I know a lot of Gen X (some of us still just about have primary school age kids and young teens) who watch the mainstream channels. I think the two main parties have no way to get to teens now. Teens are consuming content about the world that they have no control over. That’s what this is about.