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coflakee.bsky.social
#Queer #Trans #ActuallyAutistic #ADHD Advocate who spends their day writing software for space ships and their nights hanging out with their spouse and teenager. https://coflakee.substack.com/ https://www.facebook.com/coflakee/
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Many of us who have been under the radar have been allowed to be diagnosed now that we are "safer". We have been able to find each other in the world. We have been allowed to procreate. What "causes" autism. ME. The problem is ME. My Dad also had something to do with it.
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I'm a spouse of nearly 20 years (married to a librarian, how cool is that!) I'm a parent I enjoy hiking and photography I'm a huge huge space nerd. (Currently have code executing 1.5 million miles away) Also love snow and snow flakes. Our wedding was snow themed. It's been a thing for 20+ years
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People inside HR who have for years helped us build something better and safer are getting fired for just doing their jobs.
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I feel kinda shitty whining about my own DEI problems when people are being uprooted from their lives because we think there is something special about our lines on the map. Our trans service members who fight for our country are being kicked out. Indiginous people are being detained.
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I'm pretty sure they want to just get rid of those links rather than making them better... Sigh.....
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#thegoodplace
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I'm so tired of having to learn things because of him. Researching Greenland, Denmark, gulf of Mexico and Panama . Y'all this is tiring. www.wesh.com/article/trum...
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Did not pass. Two years earlier, comedian Stephen Colbert had joked on his show that, following the massive Deepwater Horizon oil spill in the Gulf of Mexico, it should be renamed “Gulf of America” because, "We broke it, we bought it.”
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Seriously accurate. There is such a thing as a "Dry cold". I used to walk to University without a coat in sub 30 degree weather. That would kill me if it was the east coast.
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East coast cold is a whole different kinda cold. Stay warm!
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I want to know how many police reports each person has had to file (or should have filed if they had the means). Let's actually compare the lives of trans advocates and JK Rowling.
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My wife LOVES thanksgiving and all the food. So we figured out a solution. For 3 years now, we have decided to do "food we are thankful for". We each choose a food we love. We make that food. We serve it buffet style. We share it with our family who can choose to eat it, or not.
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My relatives never seemed to remember that I in fact don't have anything to eat. Most of the time I brought a backup frozen pizza with me. They constantly chastised my parents for "letting me get away with it".