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So, I guess I'll tell ya what ya want, what ya really, really want. I'll tell ya what ya want, what ya really, really want:
Angry, AuDHD, 🌈🐻 with a protector complex. White man standing tf up to racism and the patriarchy. Bigots beware of bear.
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Sounds a hell of a lot better than the immigrant games.
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Come across those too often. Also, too often we find we are the smartest in the "rooms" the internet provides. Too many people are struggling to grasp basic concepts, and they yell it out on the internet.
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Was so annoyed by remembering that that I forgot to share. 🤦♂️😅
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I yelled about that until...well, my fingers bruised. No investigation or anything.
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That's awesome. Good on her. It takes a lot of strength to admit when we're wrong.
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It's definitely not universal, I didn't even think of it in that way, though now that you mentioned it, I've seen/heard that used to refer to kids in general. Be safe out there! 💗
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Buncha whiny, cissy snowflakes. Always making it about them and making up a bunch of nonsense to keep pushing their hate and victimhood. 🙄
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Ohhhh it took a second read to see you meant you were proud of her and she was just like "duh". 😅💗
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If it is a safe place to speak openly and not draw additional attention to them from surrounding assholes, A simple, "my daughter would love your hair" or something along those lines. Just watch your surroundings and clock the dangers before you bother strangers. 🫂💗
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Basically, someone else could've overheard and complained, or they could have felt uncomfortable afterward.
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Something like that can come off as sarcasm easily, especially in a public space, even more so in a place they/we work. So many people of all types across the board wear makeup, and it goes unnoticed or unbothered until it has an incident such as that. Heart's in the right place for sure, though. 🤷♂️💗
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Words are hard, and so many are trying to navigate all of this hellscape and convey acceptance and support, trying to put it into day to day life, into action beyond words. 🤷♂️
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If it is a safe place to speak openly and not draw additional attention to them from surrounding assholes, A simple, "my daughter would love your hair" or something along those lines. Just watch your surroundings and clock the dangers before you bother strangers. 🫂💗
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It also draws attention, often unwanted, by other people in public. I have no problem gushing about something in safe company, but it ain't safe for any of us often.
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I sometimes catch myself staring, thinking "omg that eyeshadow is so pretty", "gah I wish I had hair like that", "gorl werk", or the like. Just remember to smile when you're caught staring at those kinds of things, show 'em you admire them without yelling about it or bothering them.
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Wild notion, apparently. 😅💗
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Resisting the autistic urge to help the people who are saying "who?"
Looking back, I wonder if I liked this show so much because it was good, or if it was all Adrian Paul. 🤔😅
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What in the nursing home cafeteria bs is this? Salisbury steak? Instant mashed potatoes? Those veggies look drowned. Wtf is that on the right? Mystery white chunk. Jfc I could make a better meal in my sleep for a 1000th or less of what they paid for it.
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I'm wondering if we're in a Beyond Thunderdome or an Idiocracy timeline. Either way, working up a design for a Twisted resistancemobile sounds like a fun plan for the day.
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That one may jump several on my backlog! Thank you for the suggestion! I'll try to remember to let you know what I think of it, but you know how that goes lol. Might be immediate, may be 3 years after I read it. 🤷♂️😅
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Ugh, toying. Autocorrect and no edit is frustrating.
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I've been trying with the idea of writing an 'Autistic rule book' since they won't tell us the rules. Filled with snark and sass, focus out the absurdity, while still educating us on what their expectations are. I'll need to do a ton of research (fr yay lol) on the NT expectation of the unwritten.
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Basically, being willing to take responsibility for things that other people feel happened instead of what happened in reality is something I need to work on not doing.
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Went to share a "too long" story and it had so many errors I couldn't let it sit.🤦♂️😅
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They don't seem like they'll ever quite understand how much we absorb at such a young age, even the NTs. A simple correction turns into punishable offense. A question becomes something to avoid asking, so you suffer in ignorance until you can find/access the knowledge. Absurd and still we're blamed.
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That would be the only part of the spectrum that they may fall under, imo. I think they're lying about it, even then. I personally would demand justice for my first victim. Autistic empathy and sense of justice demands that I be as willing to accept consequences for my actions, even unintentional.
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I think they're hoping to bank on the ignorance of the "condition" within the general populace. In my experience, not a single autistic person would ever avoid accountability like that. I do maintain a very distinct difference in what used to be called aspergers from when I say autistic.
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The rise of accountability, some acceptance of their part in it all, is the only way to stop the blaming. I've worked with enemies before, will do it again, but they never wash that level away. I'm a forgiving person, but it's been hammered into me to react in self-preservation to that level.
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Tryna not over-like a month old post for an autist is hard when it's all adorable. 😅 Love my seeesters. If anyone fks with y'all, I know a few places and can find a few more. 🌈🐻💗
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Here I come a grunglin'. 🤣💗
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Hate that we have to turn ourselves into pretzels to get them to stop it. Ok, I thought this meme was about pretzels, but I was wrong. Still funny, so still sharing. 😅
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They always say things like "stop making excuses", when it's just a detailed explanation of what and/or why. 🫠
The way they just won't be clear and honest and upfront, and it's always our fault. 🤦♂️
It's so hard to find the line between over and under explaining things. It's never the "right" way. 🥴
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Yet again, my gut is confirmed.
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HA! Yet again, my gut was right. Dude has felt slimy since I saw him. Gotta love that pattern recognition and special interest: people steering me all the way right lol.
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The whole time they screamed about Biden's health, they were playing Weekend at Bernie's.
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Nobody wants to see the words "current president" or "throbbing" in the same sentence, maybe not even alone. 💀
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In a stained bathtub at a seedy motel using a pencil and a butter knife with no anesthesia besides the beginning of the Bawitdablahblah song on repeat.
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In a stained bathtub at a seedy motel using a pencil and a butter knife with no anesthesia besides the beginning of the Bawitdablahblah song on repeat.