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she/her
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the most beautiful and least expected effect of transitioning is when affirmation replaces shame
“a collection of sweethearts with a dash of nightmare” - chi
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want mine? it’s gonna go to waste
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ken is incredibly adorable
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yeah, it’s taken me 6mo of focused effort to even begin to understand why i hate my face
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i’m genuinely surprised i am starting to see specifics. i discovered i’ve been blind to my own face and been unable to visually analyze it like i’ve been trained to do with everything else
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i do appreciate supportive friends, please don’t misinterpret my thoughts here
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i get it, but i don’t want hugboxing either
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just wait a few months, we’re all going to get them soon instead of vaccines
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gonna disagree. cameras don’t capture reality and you can do incredible things with them
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you have done SOOO much! don’t sell yourself short!!
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entirely possible. i dont have a history of believing people
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i thought so!
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i do too, it’s magic!
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no-one told me i’d start to see what other people see in me
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thanks!
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and feeling even better!
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thanks! found it on @trans.bsky.social’s shop!
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thanks! @trans.bsky.social has a shop if you want one too
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mind blowing
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so cute!!!!
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drive up interest through scarcity? by making people think they won’t be allowed in? 🤷♀️
glad i went for it anyways
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sure, but my boobs get flagged as explicit sexual imagery. guess the secret is i need some body glitter
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nice to see people, but yeah, didn’t feel like hanging around
i think they fucked up and drove people away with the free “tickets” selling out, which apparently also happened last year
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the line had backed up so far it was about a yard from being a loop and you might as well stand in it as soon as you got your drink
we gave up and went home. plenty of decent alcohol here
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how long were you in the line for it?
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oops
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yes! there’s a casual meetup on tuesdays in chinatown, i’ll dm the deets
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busts on busses
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yeah, even if you aren’t grey ace, this kind of rejection will kill your interest and you might as well be
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i hope it comes for you too
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i know, but it is out there if you search for it. others around you are searching too
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i was! you are in LA too?
i get it! don’t risk messing up that beautiful new face!
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noooooooooooo
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i loved seeing you! you have to tell me where you got those ropes!
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you get used to it
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you look great! really suits you
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incredible! this is the summer of julia!!!
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🫂
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i get rave wear, fetish jewelry, lingerie, and testosterone supplements for menopausal women 😆
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gonna share pics?
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don’t change
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disgustingly cute
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my advice to achieve your goals? wear the damn crop top
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🤨
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i got them too, but you have far far less reason than i to listen to them