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classic moroccan-lubavitch swirl who is a yeshiva bochur trapped inside female OTD body
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hello besties it is once again wednesday

my (late) latest on substack:

long time no see

currently doing some self-ed & creating a reading list pertaining to sexuality & trauma. looking for something specific at the moment: if any of u have suggested reads regarding sexual violence in nazi concentration camps, please lmk. firsthand accounts from survivors are of particular interest

similarly, you should be reading MY husbands substack.

Good erev shabbos everyone. I have some news that I am incredibly excited to share with you all: As I have been racking my brain trying to figure out how to best serve my community, both other OTD Jews and also frum Jews, I have decided to focus on what I do best: audio/visual content.

every time one of my jewish twitter mutuals interacts with the person on here i was practically dating before i met aj i have a ‘two worlds collide’ moment

getting my phd in the history of sephardic jewish thought?

enjoy this meme i made

as much joy i get out of just seeing my niece and nephew & watching them play, i did write something about the more complicated things that go on between grown ups.

one of the biggest reasons i refuse to indulge the idea of going into tech is because a family friend was a really impressive engineer and then when tech boomed, he was behind the times. his entire career nuked. severe midlife crisis.

good morning, it's erev nittel nacht.

i am really tired of the way that frum people talk about OTD people. granted, it's slightly better than it used to be. we aren't categorically shunned in the way that was expected of parents even ten or fifteen years ago. but the way that our pain is dismissed and ignored is infuriating.

gm! had a real bug up my ass about something yesterday. when that happens ill post disorganized screeds, usually. But this thing is related to a series of shitty things tho, so I figured it was time to open up that Medium blog i never use & articulate myself:

you also cannot have a community that lacks freedom of information without abuse, and this is not just narrowed down to CSA. any community where people feel like they cannot be authentically true to themselves, or they don't have the information to understand themselves, you will have abuse.