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Author of We Need to Talk, a book on how to have hard conversations if you hate having them. Out now! Also: artist, curious human, spooky boy. đź‘» joshuagraves.me
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I've seen a few of these "uses" pages around on websites. It's so fun to see what people use on a daily basis, so I decided to make my own. joshuagraves.me/about/uses/

We use a lottt of carbon for our sites. I've spent a lot of time optimizing mine, and got an A :) www.websitecarbon.com/website/josh... (I'm going to move it to solar-powered hosting one day)

28 Years Later, A film by Danny Boyle (still frame)

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I knew Liquid Glass looked familiar.

happy father’s day to all who celebrate

HUMAN ARTISTS, use only one piece to convince people to follow you [ #ArtShare ]

Accusations are mirrors held backwards

Just finished a shirt for Lord Huron’s show at Red Rocks! They’re touring for the 10th anniversary of Strange Trails, and the shirt pulls from a few themes present in the album. #lordhuron #fanart

I heard you wanted more spooky book covers for We Need to Talk. This one's called Nightmare on Overwhelm Street. You’ve imagined every terrible outcome—and now they’re coming true. This chapter’s about what happens when stress, avoidance, and fear snowball into full-blown workplace horror.

More pulpy, Goosebumps art for We Need to Talk! This one’s called Bad Blood.🩸🙀 It’s about the old resentments we pretend don’t exist—until they derail the next project. The book shows you how to surface tension and reset without making it worse.

We all struggle with different parts of tough conversations. I used to freeze up before they even started. And it was dang near impossible to stop my stomach from tying itself in knots. What’s the hardest part for you?

Most people go into hard conversations worrying about what to say. Not enough of them know that emotions outstrip words by a mile. If someone feels threatened, called out, or attacked, the best logic in the world won’t change their mind. Their brain is already in defense mode.

You don’t need the perfect words. You need psychological safety. Most people go into hard conversations worrying about what to say. The truth? How you make the other person feel matters way more than what you say.

Time for more spooky We Need to Talk artwork! This one's inspired by a chapter on working with people who treat every new idea like a threat—and wind up digging their own grave just to avoid changing. This chapter shows you how to move things forward, even when they’re stuck in the past.

Hey, check out my book! It’s on how to have hard conversations. It’ll help you tackle lots of tricky situations without trying to come across as some silly puppet master. Link in bio! #weneedtotalk

More pulpy, Goosebumps art for We Need to Talk! This one’s called 28 Messages Later. It's inspired by a chapter about the dangers of communicating solely by text.

i have played #thelastofus so many times. i know exactly what happens. and yet, it gets me every. single. time. the show is no different. my god what exquisite storytelling.

Today's an exciting day—it's pub day for We Need to Talk: A Survival Guide for Tough Conversations by @joshuagraves.me! 🎉 This book is vital for anyone facing conflict at work. Because difficult conversations aren't the problem—avoiding them is. Get your copy: rosenfeldmedia.com/books/we-nee...

i am having (too?) much fun doing silly things to promote #WeNeedToTalk, which is out today via @rosenfeldmedia.com! 🥳

Today’s the day! We Need to Talk is officially out in the world. You can get it from wherever books are sold. Get your copy today: rosenfeldmedia.com/books/we-nee... This started as a personal mission. I was someone who struggled with tough conversations—overthinking, avoiding, unraveling.