nadeemhasanpsyd.bsky.social
Psychologist • Faculty @SJSU • Views = Mine • 🕊️
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Besides, my willingness to be vulnerable brings forth so much more real feeling from other people in relation to me that it is very rewarding. So I enjoy life very much more when I am not defensive, not hiding behind a façade, but just trying to be and express the real me.
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often have feelings which are not justified by the circumstances—then I can be much more real.
And when I can come out wearing no armor, making no effort to be different from what I am, I learn much more—even from criticism and hostility—and am much more relaxed and get much closer to people.
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When present myself as I am, when I can come forth nondefensively, without armor, just me—when I can accept the fact that I have many deficiencies and faults, make many mistakes, and am often ignorant where I should be knowledgeable, often prejudiced when I should be open-minded,
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Will do! Thx.
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🤣🤣🤣
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There are some new Peruvian joints in my area. I got to check them out.
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Are they looking for Gottman or EFT treatment?
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:)
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Yeah, that idealization & internalizing of clarity, confidence, & faith to work through a challenge can help, while too tightly grasping can lend to losing one’s own perspective, voice, & intellectual freedom, imo.
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Is this theoretically derived? Agree with most of them, but the solitude one seems like a personal preference.
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Making these subtle experiences conscious can create room for these strivings and understanding the understandable forces inhibiting them.
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And, such new experiences, can begin to awaken an attachment system that has longed to break through its protective shell and reach another person.
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Working through these painful childhood experiences would have their own timeline; yet, doses of new experiences, even if experienced with some doubt, can begin to call deeply rooted expectations into question.
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Here, the therapist being willing to hear their disappointment wouldn’t wipe away a childhood of feeling inhibited in being honest with caregivers, but it may spark the possibility that it can occur with others.
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If a client had a childhood in which their parents couldn’t tolerate their frustrations with them, there may be something novel and maybe even impossible seeming in believing that a therapist were open to hearing about their disappointment in treatment.
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Okay.
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Congrats, Awais! Well deserved.
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Well put.
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Very cool. It’s beautiful.
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Sick mug!
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There's a Lebanese dish, mujadara, that is pretty easy to make and crazy delicious.
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Really thoughtful! Have to chew in that.
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Sort of like the idea that one has to know about the rules before one breaks them. /2
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Haha, yeah--I think it gets conflated with political neutrality. And I think there are many critiques, but I find myself thinking how important it is to wrestle with as a clinician or what to keep even if certain aspects of the concept get modified or re-evaluated. /1
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Me, too.
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I have some negative countertransference.
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Sad. Jimmy can only do so much.