nicoladauthor.bsky.social
USA Today bestselling author of Regency/medieval Scottish/paranormal EROTIC historical romance. NZer, bi, dessertaholic, history geek. Should be writing, probably procrastinating. Pearl clutchers beware.
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Not even with a magnifying glass can I find a single reason why OP would stay with this utterly worthless loser.
Having a baby with him would not only be super tough on her body, he has already demonstrated repeatedly what responsibilities he would take on: IE NONE.
Just leave him FFS. Be free.
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Lmao, isn't it interesting how not one of the zillion dudes these liberal women 'pair bonded' with imprinted anything good?
Once again, incels inadvertently blurt the truth amongst the horseshit: men are the problem.
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Lol. You can just imagine the conversation before venturing out. 'if I just wear a weed T-shirt and backwards cap, I'll totally blend in! Yeah! That will fool all the libs!'
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So...dude is showing himself to be the very definition of NiceGuy. A violent creep in a tissue paper mask.
Real mystery why no one wants to date him.
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So, marriage ruins his life, but 'feminism' where women don't get married is also ruining the world.
Incel logic once again flawless. 🫠🙄
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So she married a toddler who keeps having tantrums?
Awwwww does he just want his chicken nuggies and apple sauce??
What a loser. Find an actual adult to lavish with your cooking love.
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The way punishments for predator doctors and nurses is SO MILD is actually quite horrific.
You would think the power dynamic and level of vulnerability would mean harsher punishment but it never does.
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Irish history is chock full of immigration where they left bad situations in search of a better life.
Guess that's only okay for white people though?
Dump the racist with zero empathy, he's learned shitty opinions from somewhere.
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The way they so casually lied to get her in trouble just shows who they are.
Demonstrating manipulation and slander will hurt those kids way more than seeing someone sip wine with their dinner.
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Lmao at 'riding the cock carousel'
Once again, there it is: dude big mad that it's not his cock being ridden.
Yeah, feminism is the problem, not dudes with shitty personalities. Totes.
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Lol exactly, the wealthy man about town with a pretty ingenue on his arm.
Except no, entirely inexplicably, the ingenue is paying for everything.
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Why the effing eff is she with this loser???
SHE IS 22.
Girl, ditch this wretch who is living the dream with a much younger woman paying for his lifestyle OMG.
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So, dudes getting mad that random women don't instantly respond to pity meeeeeee messages is an 'empath gift' now??
Hmmmm.
Sounds more like a raging narcissist with massive entitlement issues.
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Imagine being such an asshole that you couldn't put some containers into the fridge. Holy shit.
(Oh, and him pretending 3 kids under 5 is a stroll lands him directly in DUMP HIM NOW territory)
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Oh look, another white cishet dude that is the problem, not a drag queen.
Weird, that.
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LMAO at this goober.
Politics has ALWAYS been part of music. This dude is just pissy they disagree with HIS politics.
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This pathetic PickMe has clearly never met men.
Encouraging women to settle for mediocre is such bullshit.
(Also, are the men getting cancelled for changing a date time by an hour in the room with us??)
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Ugh, I just scrolled through, great advice for her but she is still defending his thoroughly shitty behavior as improving? 🤮
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Especially cos they hunt in packs!
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Yes, a tale as old as time, straight men are the real victims.
Why aren't they embraced in lesbian bars? Whyyyyyy?
Why isn't everyone scrambling to make life better for straight men? Whyyyyyy?
😂😂
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Yeah, I note nowhere does she say she loves having sex with him cos it's so great and he's amazeballs in bed.
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Dump this selfish loser who sees you as a bangmaid rather than human.
Literally nothing would happen to his dick if he went without sex while you managed period pain. If he was any sort of partner, he would care for YOU not be whining and manipulating.
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This idiot.
Dream men don't cheat because to hurt someone they love would be abhorrent.
As for 'women only cheat cos revenge' lol.
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Exactly. The onus is NEVER on men to manage their anger or disappointment or warped fantasy rather than lashing out.
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Pretty much! Either that or fEmiNiSm.
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Always seems to be the way with woman/girl victim. The murder/rape/assault just 'happens' by some mysterious entity, even after suspect has been charged with the crime. It's WILD.
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Cue all the shitbags who chime in to say what she should have done to avoid being murdered. "If she'd just..."
Fuck off.
There is literally no way for women to win with violent, entitled men. There is no way to decline that they will accept. Saying no risks death, as does saying yes to one date.
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Lmao I thought that also, like you literally were 'sleeping with him' then stopped that to have sex.
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Do dudes who write these 'hello fellow women' fantasies realise how utterly pathetic they make men sound?
"I have to bribe lazy, useless hubby with transactional, meaningless sex to get him to act like an adult, chortle chortle"
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I've deleted them unfortunately, but damn, there were a lot of American generals and surgeons on insta. Lol.
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Oh honey. This dude doesn't even like you, you are a convenience at best.
Don't continue the mistake just because you spent a lot of time making it. Someone else will think you are AWESOME.
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They understand consent just fine when in a gay bar...
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Dudes openly talk about SA because despite the diversionary bleats about 'false accusations' they know damn well charges rarely go anywhere.
Unfortunately SVU tv has been very successful propaganda that police actually care about SA. They don't. Nor do the courts.
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Cheating is not an accident or a mistake, it's a series of active decisions by the cheater. They set it up. They agree. They take pants off.
Place the blame where it deserves to be.
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One of the worst dates I've ever been on, dude talked nonstop, only pausing to go outside to chain smoke. One topic was how he cheated on an ex but it was okay cos she cheated first. He would ask me a question then answer it himself with 'lemme tell you a story about...'
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It is truly terrible that charges weren't pursued against him for the DV.
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Yeah, the whole 'free will' aspect zooms over their heads. 'I want this' is what matters, not what she wants.
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This. Like if they'd been together for years and she chose Brock, okay, ouch.
But she's not into him. Not even one date. And now he is slandering them both.
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Why on earth did she marry this dude??? Just looks??? They clearly aren't compatible, he wants a very different life and can't be a project to mould or fix up. End it now before he does a bunch of things to make you dump him.
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The way he has something new he loves but couldn't be arsed making an even tiny gesture towards something she loves, shows what a giant dickweed this dude is.
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It's the way everything he says is unhinged yet comes across even more so with the one line brain dumps.
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Heartbroken? No. Acting like an incel clown because his ego got dented: 100%.
As per usual, it's not the muscles or sex, it's a woman being repulsed by a vile personality.
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So if they are 'sane adult' at 8 they can drink, drive, vote, enter the military and run for political office one presumes?
No?
WONDER WHY
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These pedo dudes are SICK.
Starting a period and being physically, mentally, and emotionally ready to carry and deliver a baby are TWO VERY DIFFERENT THINGS.
Pregnancy is risky enough for a fully developed adult.
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This is a situation she will NEVER win because he will weaponise whatever she does.
Dude sounds utterly exhausting, guess she will need to choose between him and sanity at some point.
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Dump this manbaby loser and find serenity again. There are actual good dudes out there, don't waste another second on this one.
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All Pick Up Artists should be shoved into a bottomless pit. No exceptions.
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The Venn of men who make these comments and men who are either single incels or play no role whatsoever in the raising of children is a full circle.
Lazy, worthless scum.
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Just another example of how unseriosly the court regards sexual assault cases, no matter how heinous the circumstances or impact on the victim.
It's always, ALWAYS about the perp's future. Note even the description. Hard working family man, not revolting predator.