opalance.bsky.social
Just an average 38yo grey muzzle furry snep fella with a big ole tail.
Got my husband and my son plus my fur and scale babies.
Big comics and soccer fan. Love myself some bad movies and weird old media.
Collect traditional art and furry zines.
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I don't know how I felt when I came to that realization after much testing around the house and at stores that was the end texture result I was looking for because I just have never been that into being messy or sticky.
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Really like the look of it! I spent ages trying to figure out the theoretical texture of a magical form and entirely I came to the texture of those puffer balls, stretchy but not slimy...then I realized that was just a soft hardness sex toy...
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I got married at 20 and had never even kissed someone before my wedding day, so I had no idea what I was getting into. We stayed together for 8 years and though we have a good relationship now, after we separated she went online saying I emotionally abused her by not having sex with her enough?
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I'm ace, and I've been married to a girl and a guy, but with my ex-wife it was a clear case of emotional manipulation when she wanted to have sex, and I never really felt like it, didn't enjoy it. I'm still dealing with sex aversion from unwanted touching to try and arouse me and the guilt tripping.
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It's something that really gets looked over and I've straight up had coworkers tell me that it's impossible to rape a man because of said perceived willingness, or that if a man gets raped it's because he's "weak" from another coworker.
Then as ace with low sex drive, it's been a real issue.
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One snep, one flag!
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They usually sprint off, away from my towels, to rub against anything they can and try and dry themselves off which riles to the other ones, thinking they are trying to play.
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My pups were all shedding with the warm weather so all 3 corgis got baths today which led to chasing them around with towels and then brushes for the next few hours. X3
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I'm sure that'll make their whole week to see how well he's done in his new home.
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Almost as good as the plate on a Subaru I was behind Saturday,
"0W0BURU"
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I've come to believe that the acceleration of our lives as we grow older, is because we've become so used to things we see often that our brains write it off as something not to be paid attention to. Unless we either seek out new experiences or take time to appreciate old ones, we skim through life.
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I carefully manage who I follow, mute, and block to not get first or secondhand toxicity.
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That symbol of God's wonderful promise to not commit genocide in the human race (but flooding at least) AGAIN? Can't believe people are making it stand for something ugly...
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I get that so bad if I take melatonin or too much Benadryl or anything PM. Stuff that's supposed to help me sleep just makes me not able to because my legs just get so squirmy and uncomfortable.
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So jealous...got woken up at 3 and sat outside with my dogs long enough that my blind one thought my shoe was a tree or something and peed on it...
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Yeah, I'm there as well. I'm just not attracted to anything irl really. I don't look at people and think sex or feel turned on. It's really fun to fantasize about stuff or roleplay and I have kinks, but I clearly don't feel the same kind of attraction as my husband does or even my ex-wife did.
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Existential awareness is really what can separate us from being purely reactive creatures being tugged along by the strings of habit, influence, and our surroundings.
Just take notice, question why, feel a moment of uniqueness to breathe color into your life once in a while.
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Don't forget that report button as well. Spamming those follows.
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Baby boy is so happy I'm home T..T
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Must give affection back!
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I'm sorry to hear of your loss hun, it's so hard to get over losing such sweet, pure hearted creatures that grow so close to you.
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Yeah, even after all this time, I'm not sure how to define the word "love" it seems to be used in the place of a lot of other, better fitting words and from popular media, seems to be tied with being irrational in how you feel about someone.
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Neither really. I'm ace with male leaning kinks and preferences.
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That's correct! We all get along really well and are currently on vacation together, him, her, and our son. I just got married there first time at 20 before I had myself figured out.
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All the injustices in the world and they choose to witch hunt artists online...