shaelynthefae.bsky.social
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they/them or vae/vaer
asexual, non-binary, AuDHD.
beloved doombringer.
one those damned millennials. shedding who I was raised to be.
warm hugs are always welcome.
I don't know what the hell I'm doing.
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I wish I was told this the first several times I was told to make a budget.
this just confirms what I learned through that frustrating process.
and no, it doesn't.
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yet, it already is...
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just buy another laundry basket XD
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well this is timely. my dysphoria is hitting hard in ways it doesn't usually hit much at all.
ty to whoever asked the question and ty Zoe for the answer.
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oh, and my state is requiring the 10 commandments in schools now! it's not a good day to touch on my religious trauma!
at least there's a precedent that it won't hold up on court, but fucking shit!
*sigh* I'm turning off my phone, no more bad news. much love, take care of yourselves and each other.
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I'm kinda also just trying very hard to talk myself down from "everything sucks" bc dammit, it doesn't! I just had an awesome evening with friends! but hells bells, why does my country's leader have to be so fucking terrible and why does my brain suck.
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I actually want to rant about my bullshit but it also feels so miniscule rn even though things are terrible rn.
dysphoria's hitting hard in ways it doesn't usually. so's misophonia, but that's at least not a constant. i dunno.
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oh, and your ice cream to cake ratio is off, so you're probably gonna have to go back for another piece!
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When people get exposed to pro-LGBTQ messaging that features real LGBTQ people sharing their authentic selves, it drives massive positive sentiment. Because we are normal people and many of us are cool and rad as well
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rambutan.
but oddly, I also can't stand lychee.
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added context: Thimble Theatre later became Popeye.
the woman calling for help is Olive Oyl.
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gone, there's always posters that avoid his name, but it'll be manageable.
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I'll mute a few words for one week to one month at a time, depending on the word and how much I need to step away.
Trump is at the top of my list of muted words. if you mute just that, it'll help.
just give it a try for 7 days. give yourself a break. then tap back in. it won't be completely
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relatable. I've largely worked through this for myself, but it did take WORK. and it still rears its ugly head sometimes.
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@laurentheflute.bsky.social Kelly's story reminded me of yours - especially the iron infusions you've had to take.
hoping your QoL will return as well as Kelly's did.
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there is also Trans Lifeline!
this is fucking horrid.
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bsky.app/profile/wilw...
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soooo he just cares about his popularity, got it
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they *really* are. especially at like 4am when I haven't slept T.T I had a hard time letting it go to be able to sleep, and I kinda needed sleep to have a better head about things...
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there's a setting that'll remind you, it won't let you post without it.
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🫂
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depending on the paprika, that's pretty mild.
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my husband and me.
I have no tolerance, it tastes like burning.
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they aren't trained to diffuse...
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no. cameras just weren't always on them, so they got away with shit.
sometimes, like with my local pd, you'll find a video directly from them of harassing others and then patting themselves on the back for it...
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regrettably, all everything doesn't respond to wishes T.T
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but they don't have grapefruit....
they never have grapefruit...
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we actually have a couple of their power banks, but they thankfully weren't included in the recall
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surprised by the lack of alt text from such a wholesome and welcoming comic and character. any chance of changing that?
bsky has an option to remind you to add it before you post!
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good luck getting my voice right, kid
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understood, apologies
a google search for "how to take the Trevor Project survey" led me to a page on their site titled "Research". the link was at the bottom of that page.
if it helps?
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can you not send a link to Erin's post here?
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it is! for early release. but they still need testers for updates before it's pushed to open beta.
and from what I've heard, the vast majority of testers aren't active anymore.