especially now that I'm a woman and shave all the time. I know women can have body hair and I personally think hairy women mega rock but the standard is still ingrained in my subconscious and having body hair makes me dysphoric sometimes.
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It gets better as you get more confidence in yourself and your identity I feel, but it's different for everyone. I still hate having facial hair but I'm a lot less dysphoric about it now
Am not precisely fascinated with my own body hair. I have seen BH that are nice, cute, sexy or at the very least tolerable. I don't think usually that mine is any of those.
As a cis male I really wish I didnt have facial hair. Its a pain to keep it shaved or to tend it and grow it out.
Kudos to anyone who does though, I just dont have it in me.
I've been working on figuring out some gender stuff recently and I get where you're coming from 100%. I've always kinda liked my body hair but suddenly I'm not so comfortable with some of it (especially on my chest and little bit my legs).
We see and appreciate you for whatever you decide your true calling is your a beautiful inspiring individual to all of us and we are greatful for you even existing in this community ❤️
the expectation of hairlessness towards women is so bad, that I think even most afab cis women get dysphoria from growing hair.
it took me being agender for a while to feel comfortable with shaving less. x-x
I’m at a point where I just kinda rock my leg hair tbh. Used to have the same feeling of frustration but I just sort of gave myself permission one day and now shaved legs are a special treat
Honestly, bottoms not having body hair in general kinda sucks. I’m really comfortable not being completely shaved smooth everywhere but it’s so looked down upon, it’s one of my biggest insecurities
Let it grow queen! Having a body hair is one of the only ways to cultivate your body's natural musk, and it'll attract many bush warriors to find the treasure inside that temple 🫡
I personally like being smooth~ but I certainly don't mind body hair on others~ Maybe I'll feel different about this urge to be smooth once I start to transition medically~
I was that way, really early into transition I wanted smooth all the time but now after a couple years I don’t bother shaving my body at all cause I live for the butch vibes of it
Maybe, I want to feel as feminine as possible because I'm so uncomfy with my body, but, yeah, maybe that desire will wane as my body becomes more of what I want it to be.
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Kudos to anyone who does though, I just dont have it in me.
Best you can do is find someone who likes hairy women and just sorta rub 'em against ya
it took me being agender for a while to feel comfortable with shaving less. x-x