Like, its genuinely so exhausting dating as a trans woman because people *expect* that I should be available to fuck. But then at the same time, don't view me as a viable option for a life partner. Its actually really fucking gross. - ThreadSky

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bennie.gay • 5 days ago

Like, its genuinely so exhausting dating as a trans woman because people *expect* that I should be available to fuck.

But then at the same time, don't view me as a viable option for a life partner. Its actually really fucking gross.

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clairitha.bsky.social•5 days ago

This is legit the hardest truth. I don’t want to say I’ve given up, but also. What am I even doing?

patient-zero.bsky.social•5 days ago

It's wild to me *as* a poly person, like I make a really big deal out of making sure everyone I'm with is comfortable and we're on the same page.

That includes NOT hooking up with people who want more from me than I can offer, that's just a really bad move for everybody.

thecrimsontint.com•5 days ago

I used to stand with what I believed to be principled poly people being given a bad name by chasers LARPing the moniker. Nowadays, at some point, if you haven't run those fuckers out of town, I'm left to start asking why you haven't yet.