my dating advice for straight men is that a woman isn’t another species and you can just talk to her like a fucking person. this is also my advice for cis people dating trans people
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Do you have a series of videos where you explain this in so much detail it's more like explaining how a battleship works? Actually, if we're being honest, I'd like to date a battleship. Just like millions of perfectly normal American men.
I get that "just talk to people" might not feel like the easiest thing but surely it's easier than following a bunch of rules made up by some bald guy that stinks of cologne
I do think there is some (gender neutral!) etiquette for asking someone out that is worth learning, ex. Do not do a “ Rom-Com confession, instead, invite them to a specific place and time that is public, and allows for conversation, and, whoever invites, pays.
It boggles my mind that a lot of people's (cishet men mostly) work from a place of "I want to have sex with this person how do I make that happen" and not "what are they like, do we have any chemistry at all, sexual or otherwise"
Cishet dude here. I have made the mistake of "they're cute AND interested in me??" and tried to ignore the painful realization that we had exactly zero in common for too long. Like, humans are dumb when it comes to relationships, but yeah, dudes can be extra dumb.
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