Oh yeah? Could a biological male do THIS?! *goes through the motions of sex without really enjoying it and mostly dissociates* - ThreadSky

ela-bambust.bsky.social • 58 days ago

Oh yeah? Could a biological male do THIS?!
*goes through the motions of sex without really enjoying it and mostly dissociates*

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sum-gye.bsky.social•58 days ago

Yes. It can and does happen.

jivjov.bsky.social•58 days ago

Oooof ouch I've been shot

angie-bangie.bsky.social•57 days ago

Every time there's something I think is just weird and unique about me, some random trans person I've never met posts something like this and then I get to learn that it's yet another gender thing

ela-bambust.bsky.social•57 days ago

Sorgy

angie-bangie.bsky.social•57 days ago

It's ok, it's probably better to learn about this this way than to slowly and painstakingly uncover it over the course of half a dozen sessions with my cis therapist

pepperkorns.bsky.social•58 days ago

Friend sent me this bc it's me to a tee 😭

Glad I'm not the only one who gets it that bad lol

averyberry27.bsky.social•58 days ago

Only real biological males have an emotional breakdown after every orgasm. It doesn't have anything to do either dysphoria. Just guy stuff.

averyberry27.bsky.social•58 days ago

To do with*

Autocorrect loves turning with into either for me.

katieangelwitch.bsky.social•58 days ago

Shuzo Oshimi (Flowers of Evil, Inside Mari, Welcome home Alice) be like

trans.bsky.social•58 days ago

jfc

ela-bambust.bsky.social•58 days ago

Yeah sorry didn't realize what the splash damage on this thing was gonna be

chrispmueller.bsky.social•58 days ago

Allow me to introduce Ben Shapiro.

ammomancer.bsky.social•58 days ago

Yes. Yes I can.

ela-bambust.bsky.social•58 days ago

Well I have a handy solution for you

ammomancer.bsky.social•58 days ago

You activated my trap card, I'm asexual, therefore immune to charm. But now I take double damage from poison though

7ydy.bsky.social•58 days ago

know you're joking but ace people can enjoy sex

ammomancer.bsky.social•58 days ago

I know that as well. Personally I identify as sex neutral ace for that reason.

trexpushups.bsky.social•58 days ago

I'm telling. You can't come for my neck out of no where like that.

ela-bambust.bsky.social•58 days ago

Should I have bought you dinner first

trexpushups.bsky.social•58 days ago

Yes

ela-bambust.bsky.social•58 days ago

Pog :3

deetheredwitch.bsky.social•58 days ago

You know, my pretansition sex life didn't need calling out this hard, but....

ela-bambust.bsky.social•58 days ago

Yeahhhh

livinginjeopardy.bsky.social•58 days ago

ouch

ela-bambust.bsky.social•58 days ago

Oop

livinginjeopardy.bsky.social•58 days ago

i mean that is true though, just unfortunate 😔

softsoftserve.fun•58 days ago

My relation to this feeling is SA related, I do get real hyped up for it beforehand but then kinda just go third person actor during the act

it’s no good but I can’t break the habit

ela-bambust.bsky.social•58 days ago

It's really hard to do

aluminumcuffs.bsky.social•58 days ago

tips ?

ela-bambust.bsky.social•58 days ago

Focus less on the sex specifically and more on you and your body start with a single sensation, smell, taste, touch. Stop trying to be Good At Sex and try to exist in the moment. Listen to what you want and need. It's a process.

softsoftserve.fun•58 days ago

really want to be able to orgasm during partnered sex ty for the good advice

ela-bambust.bsky.social•58 days ago

Good luck!

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