At one point in the '80s, I was lightly dating six women. I was a very different person, then, but it was also an alignment of the stars. Everyone moved on; life goes on. Today, I have no dates. My wife died after 16 years; it has been four years since, today.
Sometimes I use dating apps very actively chatting/meeting 2-3 girls per weeks on dating apps because you had to edge your bets since many girls I was talking to were not serious or ghosted. It was genuinely unpleasant, so now I just play video games and hang out with friends.
I could never. It’s not because of jealousy or anything like that, I just can’t wrap my head around the logistics of it. Like half your day has to be scheduling. Like do they have an assistant?
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Sincere condolences on the loss of your wife.
It was an interesting experience but I don't have the capacity for that lifestyle anymore.
I have a lot of love to give and think *ethical* polyamoury is a great option for some folks.