its always shit that they wouldnt even like normally. we can bond over similar interests but this fake ass shit of changing ur entire personality and even career paths just to relate to me is fucking insane
But I feel like some of the time it’s just bcs they really admire/ envy you,, and need other people to help them become the person they want to be instead of having the gumption to change themselves without someone to guide them~
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But I feel like some of the time it’s just bcs they really admire/ envy you,, and need other people to help them become the person they want to be instead of having the gumption to change themselves without someone to guide them~
But I’ve also seen ppl completely change their personality for others one too many times and it kinda scares mee
but ive had way too many people changing what they do for life bc *of me*. it sickens me
some people are extremely obsessive and have no identity/ sense of self worth at all
And for that, I feel sad for them
(From a distance)