Being single is not a “punishment”. Being single is not a “punishment”. Being single is not a “punishment”. Being single is not a “punishment”. Being single is not a “punishment”. Being single is not a “punishment”. Being single is not a “punishment”. Being single is not a “punishment”. - ThreadSky

thezodiacheir.bsky.social • 108 days ago

Being single is not a “punishment”.
Being single is not a “punishment”.
Being single is not a “punishment”.
Being single is not a “punishment”.
Being single is not a “punishment”.
Being single is not a “punishment”.
Being single is not a “punishment”.
Being single is not a “punishment”.

Comments

februarynight.bsky.social•108 days ago

For 20 years my goal in life has been to live alone, but many are saying the easiest way for me to escape my country is to get married. 😮‍💨

stand-up.bsky.social•108 days ago

Marriage means giving up the freedoms you have...

februarynight.bsky.social•108 days ago

I respectfully disagree, and in this instance, marriage might be the only thing to keep me out of RFK Jr.'s ‘re-parenting’ labor camps.

stand-up.bsky.social•108 days ago

Uh.... I'm rethinking my future... living with one person is better than living in a camp full of people!

februarynight.bsky.social•108 days ago

Yeah, you get it! 🤣

stand-up.bsky.social•107 days ago

😂😅🤣

berkeleyeve.bsky.social•107 days ago

it's a fkn treat! dont have to pretend to listen🥱

anwah.bsky.social•108 days ago

one more time, i think they forget.

rubrick.bsky.social•108 days ago

You’ve never met my mother…

thecrankycripple.bsky.social•107 days ago

Being single is my choice. I can't imagine living any other way.

mantikos.bsky.social•108 days ago

Who said it is?

hautexbunz.bsky.social•108 days ago

Amen!

liberalgigi.bsky.social•107 days ago

I’m single because my husband left me for another woman and then died. I had that great love. I’m single by choice now. Be you!!! 💙💙💙

loveabundance.bsky.social•108 days ago

Being single is how we came into this world, and it's how we'll go out. It's the natural way of being. If we find good company along the way, we're very lucky. I'm especially lucky, I was born with good company. I was still born only me. Remember though, we're all connected. 🙏

coreylord.bsky.social•108 days ago

Indubitably! What’s the point of someone wasting anything they have to and for a person who doesn’t know and see them as their human, authentic self?

If someone’s got an attitude against the choice of being single, free, and… uh… being, that’s their problem!

djmamac.bsky.social•108 days ago

Ask any married man- THAT is the punishment!

djmamac.bsky.social•108 days ago

Socrates and Xantippe:

kairisblade.bsky.social•108 days ago

tell it to The Prophecy by Taylor Swift

peterodejobi.bsky.social•107 days ago

Let's do a bluesky edition https://bsky.app/profile/peterodejobi.bsky.social/post/3lbjnc3yl6k2h

c-dognumberone.bsky.social•108 days ago

It's kind of awesome :)

an-ominous.bsky.social•108 days ago

If anything it's a blessing that gets a little lonely sometimes. But that part passes quickly.

omedon.bsky.social•107 days ago

It’s the default, it’s what you should plan around, and you aren’t entitled to anything but being single. Being not single involves the free will and consent of another human being with agency and the right to also be single. Coupling is a miracle that too many people take for granted!

myperspective.bsky.social•108 days ago

Dude, I don’t have the capacity for a relationship right now. I have years of trauma to unpack CAUSED BY relationships. Maybe someday, if the right fella appears, but for now, that’s a no for me.

quinnmischief.bsky.social•108 days ago

Hard same. The idea of being in a relationship again seems like a trap. It's going to take a long time to trust again too.

greeneyedhecate.bsky.social•107 days ago

I love being single!

iamkte.bsky.social•108 days ago

Say it again for the people in the back

dementedmusings.bsky.social•108 days ago

We are born alone and die alone.

Being single is default. Being not single is an aberration.

mugsaway28.bsky.social•108 days ago

Being single could be the reward.

spankopodcast.bsky.social•108 days ago

100%

bigskybabs.bsky.social•108 days ago

Sure isn't. I logged 13+ years as a single adult and they were the best years so far.

stand-up.bsky.social•108 days ago

10, same!!!

stand-up.bsky.social•108 days ago

The best thing I decided to do for myself is to stay single! I'm so happy! I don't want to give up my independence and freedom to somebody else! I love my friends, family, and life.

2alarm.bsky.social•108 days ago

I LOVE being single.

thezodiacheir.bsky.social•108 days ago

I love that for you! ❤️

itsjoebro.bsky.social•108 days ago

I needed to see this

ckutytweet.bsky.social•107 days ago

It’s a blessing tbh

thezodiacheir.bsky.social•108 days ago

I know people do goal setting and see a relationship as a goal, but being single is not a punishment of life, karma or of the universe.

Please do not see it like that, please enjoy time learning what love is to you and for you and taking the time to assess who can embody that meaning.

thezodiacheir.bsky.social•108 days ago

I know that white supremacist cis-heterosexual patriarchy will have you believe that people who are single are non-contributors and non-participants in society.

That society is all about coupling and baby making, but it’s not. So again, you aren’t being punished, your journey is YOURS.

dhalgrenhogg87.bsky.social•108 days ago

FACTS. And, I've always been convinced that folk who believe being single is a punishment or a negative, are scared to actually be by themselves, figure out what THEY want, and go for it. That's that work MOST people are scared to or refuse to do....

mrgpj.bsky.social•107 days ago

This was beautiful and NEEDED

fouadfm.bsky.social•108 days ago

Being single in this generation is honestly a blessing. It's a chance to focus on yourself, your goals, and your growth without unnecessary drama or distractions. Embrace it and make the most of the journey!

just-shayna.bsky.social•107 days ago

It’s a gift.

just-shayna.bsky.social•107 days ago

🤣🤣

yesxpandora.vip•108 days ago

It's a self-given, self-love and self care gift of peace and tranquility until someone comes along that recognizes your value. 🖤💫

Can't tell you how many men thought something was wrong with Me that I was single. Like I wasn't the one making the choice. 😂🤌🏻

monikanyc.bsky.social•108 days ago

Being single is a vacation on a tropical island.

willemwavy.bsky.social•108 days ago

As someone who mastered being single before I retired, it is definitely not. Having a relationship as a goal will only get you into the wrong ones.

Be the best you and if you run into someone that can compliment that, great, if not, you're still the best you.

yesxpandora.vip•108 days ago

SO well-said!

b-ferrari.bsky.social•108 days ago

I used to think me being single for over a decade was because I was the problem, but then I realize the options that we have are not good and I would not be able to tolerate that. I might be deviant submissive, but I’m not stupid!