I did once. I was working from home at the time and had to go in to the office to talk to my manager about coming out. I failed - another coworker took one look and totally figured out something was going on with me.
Yeah no i havent either
Maybe like the first year or two where i wasnt out to everyone yet, but that was more than a decade ago and i dont think i could even if i tried now
i boymoded cause i worked in the worst position for us to be in at my former walmart job. that was my 1st year of HRT. i hate everything from that year. but it got me to now...a person who dresses Butch anyways....but now with Boobs that where delay for 15 years.
I’ve never “boymoded”, I do dress more masc, but those both feel different. Boymode feels like adhering to false perceptions of others (for conformity or solely safety), while dressing more masc is just how I want to look (sometimes with safety in mind).
Yeah, "boymoding" implies intention to me. I'm not knocking it or anything; I get why people need to do it. I just never personally set out with that intention. Even when I dress more masc you'll know I'm trans lol.
Even when I occasionally revisit my old "uniform" of t-shirt and jeans it's never an attempt to bootleg some version of the old me, it's just me wearing a t-shirt and jeans
I did, but I had a very short transition. In one year, I started HRT, got FFS, sorted my voice, and changed all of my paperwork to my new name. I pretty much boymoded until I got FFS and then hard switched to being fultime fem.
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Maybe like the first year or two where i wasnt out to everyone yet, but that was more than a decade ago and i dont think i could even if i tried now
Last time I didn't pass as male to everyone 🥰
and my work clothes are all heavy and layered because I am in the cold all day every day
Even when I occasionally revisit my old "uniform" of t-shirt and jeans it's never an attempt to bootleg some version of the old me, it's just me wearing a t-shirt and jeans