girls currently starting transition: make sure you check in on the one girl who's basically on the same timeline as you but has ended up being the Designated Advice Girl for appearing to be confident and well put together. She might be struggling with her own stuff and not showing it - ThreadSky

tpwrtrmnky.bsky.social • 1 day ago

girls currently starting transition: make sure you check in on the one girl who's basically on the same timeline as you but has ended up being the Designated Advice Girl for appearing to be confident and well put together. She might be struggling with her own stuff and not showing it

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werechicken.bsky.social•20 hours ago

People do this to me, a woman who can fall apart the moment someone talks about her nose.

jamiegerhardt.bsky.social•1 day ago

This happened to me.

minalamia.bsky.social•1 day ago

Oh boy how could that happen to anyone, couldn't be me...

nattygo.me•1 day ago

I'm in this post and I don't like it

maraqueen.bsky.social•1 day ago

Ooooof this hits hard

bluebamiodyssey.bsky.social•1 day ago

cthonides.bsky.social•1 day ago

That applies to role-models in general, I’d say. 🙂😞

alejandravalens26.bsky.social•1 day ago

I think I’m that one. Well, shit.

tpwrtrmnky.bsky.social•1 day ago

Worst case here is you all have a purely extractive relationship with the poor girl and by the time you're all comfortably settled into your genders, your designated big sister has developed new mental health issues and doesn't want to talk to any of you.

numbies.bsky.social•1 day ago

i have that issue with people trying to project their insecurities onto me, which sometimes makes it difficult to be friends with other trans fems, at least over the past few months
it makes me want to stealth because of how many people are like "i'm jealous of your voice"

numbies.bsky.social•1 day ago

i raise it as an issue to them, then suddenly they don't want to be friends with me anymore
shocker 🙄
now i try to make friends with other trans people in general, but establish it up front that they need to not do that

feminincubus.bsky.social•1 day ago

Holy shit this is so fucking true

tpwrtrmnky.bsky.social•1 day ago

This is because the Type Of Girl who typically ends up in this situation is often the type that puts a lot of her self worth on being independent and not needing help from others, and so will generally not reach out when she could use help - But will signal strongly when she figures stuff out

msjiji.bsky.social•1 day ago

ouch oof owie it hurts

rikaklassen.bsky.social•1 day ago

why did you have to call out my family like this

katie-kilian.bsky.social•1 day ago

Right like just gonna openly talk about me like I’m not even here

rikaklassen.bsky.social•19 hours ago

One time I came across a shorts video about how "[blank nationality] finds it uncomfortable to receive help, but will always offer help without you asking", I yelled at the screen.

intangiblematter.net•1 day ago

Question: what if I am this girl

sillylittlewoman.bsky.social•21 hours ago

Question: have you found an answer?

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