"nooooooo im not transphobic i just coincidentally forgot every single social boundary i've ever learned moments before approaching you, trans stranger on the internet!"
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it's irl too... as soon as people see someone that doesn't fit into their narrow boxes they gawk and yell and forget everything they learned bast 5 years of age
Every so often, I think about how babies process people. I have pink/purple hair and pandemic babies especially often stopped to stare at me, processing that humans came in new varieties. I sometimes wonder if rude questions to trans people stem from the same instinct, with less internal processing
My favourite was a toddler who stopped, sat down on the grass facing me, and just silently observed me for about 2-3 minutes, ignoring all else, including his embarrassed parents and me reassuring them
An adult doing the same while asking all the questions in their head would be freaky AF, tho
kids are really funny like that! mine is in the phase of papa whats this papa why that and i am talking until my mouth falls off ugh. but also id rather they get the curiosity out as kids and late know humans come in variety than end up as stumped frat bros who has never seen a redhead lmao
OMG, you just reminded me of hearing a redhead complaining about the number of times a new partner had been surprised that her down below hair matched🤣🤣🤣
I liken it to living here in Europe... Some ladies I meet want a handshake, some a kiss on the cheek, some each cheek and some left cheek, right cheek and a third kiss on the left cheek. Frankly, it's exhausting and I'm introverted and a little awkward so... I'm doin the best I can here.
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An adult doing the same while asking all the questions in their head would be freaky AF, tho
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