As someone who's little age is an actual baby, it's very rare for people to treat me like an actual baby. It's always about the state of my diaper and not about actual caretaking, and it very draining to deal with. So I can understand the frustration for the bigger kids as well. - ThreadSky

peacemaker9669.bsky.social • 22 days ago

As someone who's little age is an actual baby, it's very rare for people to treat me like an actual baby. It's always about the state of my diaper and not about actual caretaking, and it very draining to deal with. So I can understand the frustration for the bigger kids as well.

Reposted from Sophie “Elizabeth” Starling 1️⃣2️⃣3️⃣5️⃣

I think what I'm lacking right now isn't so much about diapers or kink. I think I just miss people treating me kind of like a kid. Not a baby. Not helpless. Not even all the time. Just a little bit of that gentle patience.

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furretmaster.bsky.social•21 days ago

I hear you, honestly I feel i'd more babysitter or there for a few

princesslaura.bsky.social•22 days ago

*hugs for my fellow infant* ❤️

peacemaker9669.bsky.social•21 days ago

*Hugs back* <3

daddydsdaycare.bsky.social•22 days ago

It's tough, most self proclaimed daddies or mommies don't have actual experience regressing. And let's be real most are only into it up to the point they get to get off. CGs like me who genuinely want to caregiver and be a parent are rare

peacemaker9669.bsky.social•21 days ago

Yeah, I think it's one of those things where if I'm trying to be in a little headspace, I don't want to be asked 20 questions. It's why I love consent badges that say "Here's a list of all the stuff I'm ok/not ok with." Cause I wanna be an age where verbal communication is nonexistent. XD

daddydsdaycare.bsky.social•21 days ago

Oh for sure, and that can be super uncomfortable and hard to navigate for an inexperienced big.
Personally I've dealt with that headspace before and can handle it

zenrovis.bsky.social•21 days ago

I feel like there are 2 camps for that one that are thoses as you described but then others who are just inexperienced as CG and conflate what they want with what their little wants not doing it on purpose and sometimes the littles don't say anything having that built in anxiety.

daddydsdaycare.bsky.social•21 days ago

Oh for sure. It creates a self fulfilling project of nobody getting what they want. It also doesn't help that there are so few actual CGs in our community

zenrovis.bsky.social•21 days ago

Fair I'm a switch not pure CG but have been leaning more CG recently though I think that's in part because I don't have a little to watch currently so that side is starving a bit while I can be little on my own when I want.

bassjackal.bsky.social•22 days ago

Yeah there’s a lot of emphasis on diapers for a lot of the community I feel like. I haven’t been a CG for a baby in a long time, usually toddlers. And sure if they care about diapers that’s part of it. But for me my job is more about helping the little be comfortable and finding activities that fit.

peacemaker9669.bsky.social•21 days ago

Yeah, I don't say this to discourage people who do wanna focus on the diaper part of the interactions, but it's just not for me and it's important to understand that not everyone is the same. X3

kisparks.bsky.social•21 days ago

diapers are but a small part of the overall picture. *makes a movie finger square with hands*

There's a fox there! Zoom out!

peacemaker9669.bsky.social•21 days ago

Unenhance! XD

kisparks.bsky.social•21 days ago

gotta use the macro lens or the camera can't focus on you, sorry little buddy!

pixxystick.bsky.social•22 days ago

Bwuh i feel that. The fun baby stuff is like being enforced to crawl, or being fed out if a bottle, or having naps and snack time determined for you. There’s more fun than just the state of a diaper.

peacemaker9669.bsky.social•21 days ago

Yeah! There's so much more than just the diaper. I hope people can understand that. X3

mewbab.bsky.social•20 days ago

Ah dang. I am sorry that people don't properly caretake you. When I RP, I try my best to do the caretaking part, since I get an inherent joy from taking care of littles.

laxtheskunkbnuy.bsky.social•21 days ago

I feel this alot >.< *hugs*

peacemaker9669.bsky.social•21 days ago

I think it's definitely relatable to a lot of people honestly. So you're not alone. <3

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