it difficult. landlords hate it. id move anywhere if it meant not being alone. sorry for being difficult. idk it just struck me because she's usually so sweet and the way she said it was so cold. yes she should put herself first, but I thought she'd care a little more? if we don't live together, - ThreadSky

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redshiftt.bsky.social • 6 days ago

it difficult. landlords hate it. id move anywhere if it meant not being alone. sorry for being difficult. idk it just struck me because she's usually so sweet and the way she said it was so cold. yes she should put herself first, but I thought she'd care a little more? if we don't live together,

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redshiftt.bsky.social•6 days ago

she will get an apartment alone and I'll live with strangers. b is being vague with their timeline of moving out so who knows how that will go. or when it will go. I just feel like they don't care. I know we are later 20s now, they want to put roots down, I don't want to hold them back. but I

redshiftt.bsky.social•6 days ago

thought it would st least appear that I cross their mind. I always think if the shoe was on the other foot I'd always be checking in. always trying to help me out with getting out more, getting some kind of life. but they just don't do that. and when I do vent they'll say "let us know if we can do

redshiftt.bsky.social•6 days ago

anything" and surface level that's nice but it's meaningless. especially when I've said things and they don't follow through anyway. so here we are. maybe I'm naive or too self-absorbed. maybe they are too busy and this is their best and I'm just insecure and read too much into everything.

redshiftt.bsky.social•6 days ago

actually my worst fear is that it's a balance of the two. they don't care enough and this is their best and I am too insecure and self-absorbed. nobody wins, not that there's ever anything to win.

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