We all make mistakes especially when dealing incredibly painful events. Still some things like what u considered betrayal at those times closes doors & burns bridges
I had just gotten back from seeing my brother reduced to skin & bones & being told he had 3 weeks to live. I had nothing to say to those fake friends except good bye. Sometimes being a good friend is giving people their space & trusting to know what's right for them.
I had two so called friends that got nasty with me because l didn't not want to talk to them about my brother dying. They decided something was wrong with me after one of them called me on the phone & complained about the cruise control not working on her car, she talked about it for 45 minutes,
People will try to get you to talk about your feelings and tell you things about their lives trying to be a comfort or they complain to you about things that seem superficial compared to watching a loved one fight for there lives & you think l don't like any of you, l don't want to talk to ass holes
My brother & l where extremely close, best friends. I understand that even the thought of loosing a child to cancer is so painful it's beyond words. Alot of people don't understand that. It's tough.
Did John quit smoking? I don't know. I haven't seen him. His beautiful daughter Tedie has cancer. I'm sure he is going through a terrible heart breaking situation right now. My brother died of cancer when he was 33. I know how sad dealing with cancer is.
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