Lol you're not a dumbass. You gave off such a vibe but, anyway, we still love and care for you. Congrats on being accepted of your identity and telling us about it π
I never know anyone's gender online unless they happen to mention it. Y'all just out there like non-gendered blobs of Theys to me. But I'm glad for you! π
(Jayden) To be fairβ¦we kind of just thought soβ¦but the thing is, sometimes those around someone see it before the person themselves. (Weβve been through that three times so donβt feel bad).
No estoy sorprendido(? Yo ya te veΓa como vato, pero eso no te hace tonto, sΓ³lo no estabas seguro de ello, pero hey, uno siempre aprende de si mismo cada dΓa! AsΓ que felicidades!
ahh thank you ;;; <333
yeah i've been beating around the bush for a couple of years now haha
i only started accepting it a couple of month ago
in a way this helped me to clear confusion and maybe closure for myself π
I've learned to identify people online as "Entities" until I'm told otherwise.π€£ π
My grama struggles with the concept.
Grama: But is it a girl or a boy?
Me: lol idk?? Its a person.π
I remember DECADES ago, my freind sat me down, with our other closest freinds & wanted to tell us something. She told us "I've been taking collage classes & I'm gonna graduate a year before you guys."
We were so confused because she was SO worried about telling us. We were like "Badass!" LMAO π€£β₯οΈβ₯οΈβ₯οΈ
no cuz u already had he/him in bio n at some point said something about ur partner that sounded achillean
u were already being called dad-related terms in the discord server π all the VC interactions n shi i was like oh yeah gay(?) trans guy n cuz of ur age i thought u were already out ueueue π€‘π€‘
Leo, creΓa que ya lo habΓas dicho antes (?) JAJAJA yo ya me referΓa a tΓ con pronombres he/him π, pero felicidades por gritarlo fuerte y alto mano, un abrazote feliz pride πΊπ½β¨οΈ
Youβre not a dumbass. Itβs all part of learning about who we are. It took me a long time too and even longer to come to terms with myself and Iβm still finding out what works for me. There is no set timeline for these things.
I hope discovering this part of yourself brings you happiness and joy! ππ₯°π
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i knew i was blind, but goddamn lol
and iβm so happy for you, omg!!π₯Ήππ
i'm gonna start making a little compilation of people who thought i already was out because it's too funny pfft
but thanks!! <3
Same
I thought it was common knowledge π€£
god i really am a dumbass
but it is, also very funny lol
(congratulations btw, this must be HUGE for you!)
But! There is no shame in finding joy in 'making the announcement' for such an important self-discovery, whether everyone already knew or not. π€
yeah i've been beating around the bush for a couple of years now haha
i only started accepting it a couple of month ago
in a way this helped me to clear confusion and maybe closure for myself π
Also bby 6 months ago you said youβre the luckiest guy in your anniversary post xD I had just assumed since then LOL
didn't want to go too deep into it at that moment HAHA
My grama struggles with the concept.
Grama: But is it a girl or a boy?
Me: lol idk?? Its a person.π
We were so confused because she was SO worried about telling us. We were like "Badass!" LMAO π€£β₯οΈβ₯οΈβ₯οΈ
u were already being called dad-related terms in the discord server π all the VC interactions n shi i was like oh yeah gay(?) trans guy n cuz of ur age i thought u were already out ueueue π€‘π€‘
ITS OKAY!! ππ
pero muchas gracias ay ;___; <333
I hope discovering this part of yourself brings you happiness and joy! ππ₯°π