This, seriously
I wish more people (especially in the queer communities) would get this
There is not one twue way to be non-binary. Non-binary folks owe no-one a specific kind of presentation or identity
Non-binary can mean anything outside of binary gender norms
Y'all need to accept that
I wish more people (especially in the queer communities) would get this
There is not one twue way to be non-binary. Non-binary folks owe no-one a specific kind of presentation or identity
Non-binary can mean anything outside of binary gender norms
Y'all need to accept that
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Bonez 🩵🩷🤍
Non-binary includes people who are masc-presenting, folks. So don't be so fucking shocked when someone who could pass as a cis man turns up to your "women and non-binary" events.
Non-binary doesn't equal woman-lite.
Non-binary doesn't equal woman-lite.
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It doesn't mean androgyny
It doesn't mean AFAB or AMAB
It doesn't mean they/them pronouns
It doesn't mean more femme or more masc
It doesn't need medical transition
Social norms don't apply, that's the point
Non-binary is what that person says it is to them
If you want to know, ask, plenty of us are happy to talk about this stuff
But you need to ask, not assume, that's why we get so pissed off
I know several friends who struggle with how common this shitty "non binary is just woman lite" thing is and I really wanted representation for them
And yeah, I've dealt with plenty of folks misgender my game characters because they look one way or another and then double down on misgendering them with a "But they look more manly so I'm gonna call them a man" and it fecking hurts
We aren't all the same, so how the world gets to see our lives should be varied in beautiful ways that demonstrate that spectrum 💜
I can pass as a man because I've been on T for almost a decade & have a beard.
That's their problem they have to work out, not yours. And it hurts people who actively need support too
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