I've been noticing that even queer folks are still struggling to understand the difference between these distinct labels.
Let me tap the sign again:
It is imperative that we understand that using "Top" to always mean "Dom"; and "Bottom" to always mean "Sub" is heteronormative and demeaning. : /
Let me tap the sign again:
It is imperative that we understand that using "Top" to always mean "Dom"; and "Bottom" to always mean "Sub" is heteronormative and demeaning. : /
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That being said, if we are adopting a label set, I want to make sure that it's expressive rather than reductive, if we plan to use them at all.
I always use the term switch when it comes to top & bottom, lol
I never even thought of using the word versatile in this topic, to me versatile has to do with adaptability as well as being interchangeable, not in sexy time, lolol