I'm too angry to properly articulate myself but I love all my fellow bisexual and pansexual mutuals. I'm sorry you're told time and time again you're "traditional" or you're expected to prove your queerness. It's ugly and unwarranted. You are valid and loved, by me and so many others. - ThreadSky

whirlinginroses.bsky.social • 8 days ago

I'm too angry to properly articulate myself but I love all my fellow bisexual and pansexual mutuals. I'm sorry you're told time and time again you're "traditional" or you're expected to prove your queerness. It's ugly and unwarranted. You are valid and loved, by me and so many others.

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claracatte.etheirys.social•7 days ago

My hubbies are bi and pan and get so much flack cause they're in a 'straight' polycule and I'm ace af. My gfs (and theirs) are bi too. People need to fuck the hell off. Nobody has to prove anything. If you are queer, you're queer. End of.

sarandavasnormandy.bsky.social•8 days ago

As a bi person myself, idk why we and those that are pan get so much hate and shut down like we aren't valid. Thank you for being a voice and the same goes back to you - you are so loved 💕✨️

somftancunin.bsky.social•7 days ago

Thank you for this, Rose🖤

whirlinginroses.bsky.social•7 days ago

Of course! Nothing annoys me more than baseless assumptions

ziziphoenix.bsky.social•8 days ago

It sucks bc we’re clearly not straight enough for straight people, but it also feels like we’re not queer enough for the queer community

Sometimes I feel invasive trying to find community among other queer ppl bc so many of them don’t think I belong in their spaces

hennaa2.bsky.social•7 days ago

this 💯😔

worfrozhenko.bsky.social•8 days ago

Yes, this, thank you! This constant bi/ pan erasure that we face time and time again is so exhausting. And unnecessary. We are here, we are valid. We are queer!

sylveal.bsky.social•7 days ago

I usually tell people to get a fucking hobby! Our gender, sex and relationships are not for inspection. Fuck fascism and patriarchal assumptions. My queer joy is just for me and mine. There has been enough pain, I now need to celebrate who I am and care for my beloveds. Nurture your communities.

septumnism.bsky.social•7 days ago

Definitely this! And I also think a lot of people need to learn to mind their business for real. Just because something looks a certain way on the outside, doesn't mean it's the same on the inside. For example, my M/F Tav ship is a queer ship, and I hate that I have to "proof" their queerness.

whirlinginroses.bsky.social•7 days ago

God absolutely, wouldn’t it be nice if people just minded their own business instead of making cruel and hurtful assumptions

septumnism.bsky.social•7 days ago

I need those people to shut the fuck up actually

sacredsymbol821.bsky.social•4 days ago

Im really sorry for the late reply but I went on break. Ppl really need to learn that mxf ships can still be queer and that bi ppl do not see things through a straight person lense but a bi person one. Also mxf bi/pan couples exist where all parties are bi and or pan. I'm sick of the assumptions tbh

whirlinginroses.bsky.social•4 days ago

Yes exactly! So many people I know have been hurt by baseless assumptions and people taking ONE look at their M/F ship and going "oh that's hetnorm" like... no actually, nuance exists lol

brandi-peach.bsky.social•8 days ago

Same goes to you, Rose 🫂💓

orangekittyenergy.bsky.social•8 days ago

THANK YOU!!! Yes to all of this.

magspeaches.bsky.social•8 days ago

🩷💜💙

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